08/12/2026
Wellness Wednesday with Andrea đ
For those of you who have been following along with my Wellness Wednesdays, you may have noticed I missed a week.
And if you didnât notice, thatâs okay tooâclearly I need to reach out more. đđ
Life has been a whirlwind since the end of July. My beautiful mom took her last breath on August 1st. As her executor, the days since have been filled with memorial planning, phone calls, paperwork and arrangements.
I am incredibly sad knowing I wonât see her again on this side of heaven, but I am also so grateful for her lifeâand for the example she gave me.
Mom would have turned 90 in November, and she was looking forward to that milestone. And right up until the last chapter of her life, she was living.
She exercised every day. She went for walks. She kept her mind sharp playing games and doing puzzlesâSudoku was her favourite. She loved people and joined as many activities as she could. She lived in a seniorsâ residence and kept herself busy!
She used a walker because her greatest fear was fallingâand then, in mid-June, I received the call. She had fallen and cracked her tailbone.
After several days of excruciating pain, she ended up in the hospital for about nine days. But even there, Mom was still Mom.
She made friends with the person in the bed across from her. While most people stayed in their hospital gowns, Mom got up and dressed every single day.
I would walk into her room and there she would be, sitting in the chair beside her bed, dressed beautifully, wearing her clip-on earrings and necklace, looking like a princess. â¤ď¸
And yesâŚshe still regularly beat me at cribbage. đ
Even as her body grew tired after her fall, she remained determined to live according to the routines and values that had carried her through almost 90 years.
Her morning Bible reading never wavered. Neither did her love for her church, where she had been an active member all her life.
So why am I telling you about my mom on Wellness Wednesday?
Because she taught me something about wellness.
Wellness isnât about having a perfect body or never getting sick. It isnât about looking young forever or trying to outrun aging.
Itâs about living while you are alive.
Moving your body while you can.
Using your mind.
Having routines that give your days purpose.
Connecting with people.
Taking care of yourself.
Finding joy in ordinary moments.
And nurturing the faith that carries you through both the beautiful and difficult seasons of life.
My mom did those things.
She loved deeply. She cared for herself. She exercised even when it became difficult. She kept learning, playing and laughing. She loved people. She loved her life.
And when the end came, she knew this life wasnât all there was. She trusted that her loving Saviour would be there with open arms when it was time for her to graduate to her next adventure.
Maybe thatâs the kind of vitality we should really be striving for.
Not simply adding years to our livesâbut adding life to our years.
Isnât that what we all desire for ourselves? â¤ď¸
This Wellness Wednesday is for you, Mom. Thank you for showing me how itâs done. đ