Sot Phanit Writer

14/02/2025

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11/02/2025

The perfect success of a person cannot be achieved according to the expectations of others; rather, that success is accomplished through one's own nature. People always have only one goal, which is success, but the methods of achieving it vary greatly and cannot be the same for everyone. For example, there are two excellent students: "Student A" always scores 100 in every subject in class exams, and this "Student A" prefers to study alone in their room. He does not allow anyone to disturb his study time, as he enjoys solitude and living alone. On the other hand, "Student B" also scores 100 in every subject in class exams. However, this "Student B" enjoys going outside to play, loves discussing with teachers and classmates, and does not like studying alone.

If there were a change in the habits of these two excellent students—forcing "Student A" to study in an open environment, meeting many people—His exam results would surely decline, and He would no longer remain an outstanding student. Moreover, He wouldn’t be able to endure such a change. Similarly, if "Student B" were forced to study alone in a room, his performance would also deteriorate, and he might become so bored and restless that he couldn't focus on studying at all, eventually becoming just an average student, no longer excelling as before.

Through this explanatory example, you should understand: strive to achieve what aligns with your own inner nature, and don’t pursue something based on the habits or opinions of others, because the unique perfection of each individual lies within their own self.

07/02/2025

Don't wait for great success; just enjoy the process. Learn to find joy in your small successes, and keep yourself as simple as possible. There's no need for others to see how amazing you are.

07/02/2025

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06/02/2025

The first and most fundamental form of love is self-love, because no one can love you more than yourself. No one can forgive you more than you can forgive yourself. Every mistake you make cannot be corrected by anyone other than yourself. No one can value you more than you value yourself. Therefore, love yourself deeply! Do not lose heart when someone criticizes you, when someone judges you, or when someone dislikes you. Remember this: if you do not love yourself, there is no one from the realm of the gods who will love you as much as you can love yourself—there is no such person. Even if you wish to die, no one will truly want to die alongside you.

As for romantic love, if you encounter a toxic relationship, fake affection, or deceitful love, do not be hurt by such betrayals of love’s true value. Strengthen yourself, build your confidence, and never love anyone more than you love yourself. If you love someone more than you love yourself, your own value becomes lower than theirs. This will cause immense pain when they betray you, pain that may never heal and could even become more unbearable than life itself.

That is why some people, failing to understand their own worth, place excessive importance on emotions. When those emotions betray them, or when love itself betrays them, they consider themselves worthless. They may even fall into deep despair or contemplate death, all because they have undervalued their own worth.

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12/01/2025

Nowadays, it seems increasingly difficult to find genuine love or to attract someone who truly wants to enter our lives when we have nothing to offer materially. However, remember this: if you have someone who loves you despite your circumstances, someone who chooses to stay by your side and takes care of you even when you have nothing, you are incredibly fortunate. That person truly loves you with honesty and without doubts.

In today’s world, people often choose their partners based on what they can gain whether it’s beauty, money, fame, or status. This has become a common culture, especially in parts of Asia, where many prioritize material benefits when selecting a partner. Of course, some may disagree with this perspective, and that’s perfectly fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I’m simply sharing advice and observations I’ve gathered over the years.

If you are lucky enough to have someone who genuinely loves you and doesn’t abandon you despite your lack of material possessions, cherish them. Love them back because their feelings are honest and pure. However, it’s also important to take a step back and reflect on why they want to be with you. Is it because of genuine love, or could there be ulterior motives? Sometimes, what seems like love might be a trap to take advantage of you. Be mindful, and trust your instincts. If you discover that their love is truly sincere, hold on to them. But if you sense they are with you for their own benefit, make a decision based on what feels right for you.

In my experience, most people form relationships based on mutual benefits. It has become normal in our society for love to be intertwined with what each partner can offer the other. For example, if a woman is wealthy and owns a fancy car, why would she choose a man who is poor? She would likely seek someone whose status and lifestyle match her own. Similarly, men often choose their partners based on what aligns with their preferences and ambitions. This doesn’t mean I’m looking down on those who have less it’s simply a reflection of reality in society.

If you’ve faced heartbreak because you lacked the “benefits” your exes were looking for, don’t let it weigh you down. Accept this reality, but don’t take it too seriously. There is always someone out there for everyone. Sometimes, you may need to look beyond your own standards. Perhaps someone who seems “less qualified” or “lower” in social standing than you might actually be the perfect match. If you’re unlucky enough not to find someone who loves you while you have nothing, then focus on being the person someone else would be lucky to have. Don’t just wait for luck to come—create your own luck with the right person.

And if, like me, you haven’t found that special someone yet, don’t despair. Love yourself first and foremost. Maybe some of us are simply meant to stay single for life and that’s okay too. Laugh about it, embrace it, and keep moving forward.

-SotPhanit_writer

26/04/2024

31/01/2024

a man who has clear goals.


Choose a man who has clear goals, don't choose a boy who uses you as his fun. Boys who are youngest ages don't know well about themself. But not all of them who are the same, still a few of them understand themselves who are they, what is their goals ? Boys in this topic considered as characteristics mostly.

I will be cursed by those boys who read my books now, but I love them to curse me by not writing a lie to people. Boys don't get experiences yet in their lives. Most boys get a lot of girlfriends while they are not having a job and what to do. Still, yeah they are young and have beauties attracting to girls. Why dare I say like that ? I got so many experiences in life, I'm nearly 30 years old. That's not mean boys are always bad, not at all. This is because of they are still young and don't know the purposes of life. Some boys will be late if they are not aware who they are. Sometimes, boys are the victims of his own slaves in life. Although, boys who are aware of his purposes of life, they are becoming the real men, the handsome real men, always.

Let talk about real men. When boy enters to the ages who know his goals clearly, then he is becoming the man surely. Man is responsible for his family's lives. He never does things taking risks in his life because he has family to take care of. Man always has high persistence and humble in severe situations. Man doesn't talk much, when he talks he will do best according to his speeches. Man has his big goals and insights, he never follows someone's talks or consultation because he clearly sees what to do and don't. Man doesn't spend his time with girls, if any girl is just a girl, he will distances from her completely. Because he is fed up of everything, especially evolving with many girls. That is wasting his time achieving his goals. When any man evolves with so many girls, he is not becoming man yet, he's still a baby boy, so don't confuse this case. Man can achieve 99% of his goals, in contrast boy can achieve only 1% of his goals. Because man spends all of his time chasing his goals while boy still has characteristics like a child who always loses hope when things get wrongs.

From now on, you can see clearly who is your boy, he is a man or just a baby boy. 99% of men will get married to a woman who they love most and evolving with currently. 1% of boys will get married to his girls while they are not clear which girl he will chooses. Be smart enough to save your life and depending on who is clear with your life, don't make fun with those who don't clear with your life and your family. In the end, boys can become men unless they are fed up of all fun and prepare themselves for better future.

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31/01/2024

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31/01/2024

Trust in God who always stays by your side no matter what.

29/01/2024

People leave, but you yourself never leave you at all. If you leave yourself, who will stay by your side?