23/09/2022
Brother sir,
Please listen. Your mother is very important but so is your wife. It is not a competition and their positions are different.
When you signed up to be a husband, you signed up to protect your wife from all threats domestic and foreign. This includes friends, family etc.
If you watch on while your mother bullies your wife, you are not worthy of that wife in the first place.
Your wife is human and humans have limits, don't wait until this limit is crossed so that you can blame her, do the needful today.
Your home is the space of your wife and while your mother should always be welcome, your wife calls the shots in that space with you.
This is where you get to show the man in you. Many of the discords that exist do because of weak men unable to speak the truth and caution the excesses of overbearing family.
No, it doesn't mean selling your people out. It means creating order, limits and asking that your space, including your spouse, be respected.
