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24/12/2025

Merry Christmas 2025!

Get copy of this very simple e-book in titled: Christmas Through the Eyes of Those Who’ve Seen It All. Click the link, enjoy reading and God bless.

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15/11/2025

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13/11/2025

The wolf looked at the dog with reproach and asked,
“Cousin… tell me, what do you think of humans?”
The dog lowered his eyes. His voice was quiet, weary:
“When they want to insult someone… they call them a dog.”
The wolf raised an eyebrow, surprised.
“Have you hurt their children?” he asked.
“No.”
“Have you betrayed them?”
“Never.”
“Have you kept watch over them, kept them safe from me night after night?”
“Yes, always.”
The wolf smiled—bitter and small.
“Then tell me this: what do they call the people they admire? The brave, the clever, the independent?”
The dog sighed.
“They call them… wolves.”
Silence fell. At last the wolf shook his head with a hollow chuckle.
“Didn’t we tell you from the start to join us? I raided their flocks, I frightened their children, I betrayed them again and again… And still — when they want to praise someone, they compare him to me.”
He leaned closer and whispered:
“Remember this, cousin: people worship their tormentor… and shame the one who stayed true to them.”

27/01/2025

A professor finds himself sitting next to a farmer on a train. Bored, the professor decides to propose a game to pass the time.

“I’ll ask you a question,” the professor says. “If you can’t answer, you give me $5. Then, you ask me a question. If I can’t answer, I’ll give you $500. What do you say?”

The farmer nods in agreement.

The professor starts, “What is the distance between the Earth and the Moon?”

The farmer silently pulls out $5 and hands it to the professor.

Now it’s the farmer’s turn. He asks, “What animal has three legs when climbing a mountain and four legs when coming down?”

The professor is stumped. He racks his brain, searches for logical explanations, and even consults his notebook, but he can’t find an answer. Frustrated, he hands over $500 to the farmer.

The farmer takes the money with a smile and leans back to take a nap.

Curious and unwilling to let it go, the professor shakes the farmer awake and asks, “Alright, what animal is it?”

The farmer silently pulls out $5, hands it to the professor, and goes back to sleep.

27/01/2025

The snake bit the hen, and with the poison burning in her body, she sought refuge in her henhouse.

But the other hens preferred to expel her so that the poison would not spread.

The hen limped away, crying in pain. Not because of the bite, but because of the abandonment and contempt of her own family at the time when she needed them most.

So she left... burning with fever, dragging one of her legs, vulnerable to the cold nights.

With each step, a tear fell.

The hens in the henhouse watched her go away, watching her disappear on the horizon. Some said to each other:

— Let her go... She will die far from us.

And when the hen finally vanished into the immensity of the horizon, they were all sure that she had died.

Some even looked at the sky, hoping to see vultures flying.
Time passed.

Much later, a hummingbird came to the henhouse and announced:

— Your sister is alive! She lives in a cave far away from here.

She recovered, but lost a leg from the snake bite.
She has trouble finding food and needs your help.

There was silence. Then the excuses began:

— I can't go, I'm laying eggs...

— I can't go, I'm looking for corn...

— I can't go, I have to take care of my chicks...

So, one by one, they all refused the request. The hummingbird returned to the cave without help.

Time passed again.

Much later, the hummingbird returned, but this time with painful news:

— Your sister has passed away... She died alone in the cave... There is no one to bury her or mourn her.

At that moment, a weight fell on everyone. A deep lament filled the henhouse.

Those who were laying eggs stopped.

Those who were looking for corn left the seeds.

Those who were caring for the chicks forgot about them for a moment.

Regret hurt more than any poison. Why didn't we go before?, they asked themselves.

And without measuring the distance or the effort, they all set off for the cave, crying and lamenting. Now they had a reason to see her, but it was too late.

When they got to the cave, they didn't find the hen... They only found a letter that said:

"In life, many times people don't cross the street to help you when you're alive, but they cross the world to bury you when you die.

And most of the tears at funerals are not from pain, but from remorse and regret."

06/01/2025

05/12/2024

THE LAWYER AND THE ARTIST

A Story Worth Your Time.

A lawyer and an artist had lived in the same neighborhood for many years. Though they were not close friends, but they greeted each other every day. One day, the lawyer visited the artist and told him,

"Listen, a client of mine told me some really bad things about you. He said you're a terrible artist and most of your artworks are crap. He said that anyone who buys your artwork must be really dumb. He told me more rude things about you that I can't even talk about. He is your enemy!"

The artist gave a long, deep sigh and muttered,
"Yes, he is my enemy! He is truly my enemy!"

The following day, the lawyer visited the artist again and said to him,

"Listen, I met someone at a restaurant and he told me some nasty things about you. He said you're a smoker, a chronic drug abuser and a heavy drinker. He also said you're a former armed robber, and a former car thief. He didn't just tell me, but he told everyone in the restaurant. He is also your enemy! You have two enemies!"

The artist sighed heavily and mumbled,
"Yes, he is my enemy! I have two enemies!"

On the third day, the lawyer went to visit the artist again and told him,

"Look, a man from our neighbourhood stopped me and told me some awful things about you. He said you have a highly infectious disease, and anyone who comes close to you will be infected. He is telling everyone to stay away from you. He is also your enemy! You have three enemies!"

However, this time around, the artist shook his head and said,
"No, you're wrong. I have four enemies!"

The lawyer protested,
"No, it's three!"

The artist then smiled and whispered into his ear,
"No, it's four! You forgot to include yourself. Listen, the fact that you didn't defend my name while those people were slandering me, but rushed to inform me about it, means you are also my enemy. In fact, you are my worst enemy!"

The lawyer was shocked and dumbfounded. He left the room, hanging his head in shame like a child.

LESSON TO LEARN:
When counting your enemies, never forget those who don't defend your name while someone slanders you. They know that you are a good person, but they keep quiet while they hear others say bad things about you. They are your enemies too! Be wise and be more careful!

Unforgettable author: Chima_Dickson
Keep following Bona Wycliffe Wöl
I let my stories teach the life lessons.

14/11/2024

THE FISH AND THE BIRD

A Short Moral Story.

One day, a bird flew down to the river and began to drink. Suddenly, a fish emerged from the water and crawled on top of a leaf. It said to the bird.

"We, the aquatic animals are far more blessed than you all that live on land and in air. We never get thirsty at all. We never worry about taking a bath. We don't get disturbed by the rain. And we also don't have to deal with those silly humans that hunt you guys for food"

The bird scoffed and whistled.
"Oh, little fish... You brag more than a mouse on cheese. If I remember correctly, humans also hunt you guys for food. So don't act like you all are some special creatures in the kingdom. We are all special and unique in our own way!"

The fish shrugged nonchalantly and said.
"Did I also mention that the underwater actually looks and feels like heaven? It's very warm, calm and peaceful. Yeah, everything is quiet, you won't be disturbed by noise of any kind. Everything just seems so magical in there... I'd love to take you on a tour to explore the spectacular underwater world. I'm sure you'll find it very interesting!"

The bird laughed so hard that it could hardly catch it's breath. And then, it chirped.
"Isn't that silly? How is it possible to explore the underwater world with you when I have no gills to breathe in the water"

The fish whispered.
"Oh, it's quite simple. You'll just have to cover your nose, and I'll be breathing into your mouth while we swim together. Just trust me! Trust me! Your life is safe in my hands. Just trust me"

The bird became so enthusiastic about witnessing the beauty of the underwater that it agreed on going on the tour with the fish. However, they hadn't gone far in the water when the fish suddenly stopped and asked.
"Why do you trust me so much to even put your life in my hands?"

The bird replied firmly.
"Because you said I should trust you"

Then with a wicked smile, the fish murmured.
"Wrong move. You should never trust someone who tells you to trust them. That's because people who are really trustworthy won't convince you to trust them or try to win you with words. Poor bird... I actually went out in search for food for my family when I found you, and then I had to lure you into the water. It's all a trap. A bird would taste really nice for lunch!"

The fish called the other fishes and they devoured the bird in a hurry.

You will stumble upon the wrong people in your love life, in your friendships, as strangers and sometimes even in your family circles. Not everyone is trustworthy. And just because someone tells you to trust them, doesn't mean you should trust them. Evil are great pretenders. We live in a world where a lot of people have a lot of incentives to mislead you. It is tremendously necessary that you are aware of who you trust, and learn that not everyone is interested in your well-being. Some people are good for you, some are not. Start putting yourself first and understand that you don't deserve to be betrayed. Be careful of whom you trust.

My favourite Author: Mr. Chima_Dickson
Keep following Bona Wycliffe Wöl

19/10/2024

"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey is a seminal self-help book that outlines a principle-centered approach for personal and professional effectiveness. Covey emphasizes the importance of character ethics and aligning actions with core values to achieve lasting success. Here are ten key lessons and insights from the book:
1. Be Proactive: The first habit focuses on taking responsibility for one’s actions and choices. Covey emphasizes that proactive individuals recognize their ability to control their responses to situations, rather than being reactive and allowing external circumstances to dictate their behavior. This mindset fosters empowerment and accountability, enabling individuals to shape their lives intentionally.
2. Begin with the End in Mind: This habit encourages readers to envision their desired outcomes before taking action. Covey advocates for defining personal and professional goals, aligning daily activities with long-term values and visions. By having a clear sense of purpose, individuals can make decisions that lead them toward their ultimate objectives, ensuring that their efforts are meaningful and direction-driven.
3. Put First Things First: Covey emphasizes the importance of prioritization and effective time management. This habit involves focusing on what is most important, rather than merely reacting to what is urgent. By identifying and dedicating time to high-priority activities that align with one’s values and goals, individuals can increase their effectiveness and reduce stress.
4. Think Win-Win: Covey advocates for an abundance mindset, where individuals seek mutual benefit in relationships and interactions. The win-win attitude fosters collaboration and cooperation, rather than competition. By focusing on solutions that benefit all parties involved, individuals can build trust, strengthen relationships, and create sustainable agreements.
5. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood: Effective communication is rooted in empathetic listening. Covey emphasizes that before expressing one’s own views, it’s crucial to fully understand the perspective of others. This habit enhances interpersonal relationships, reduces misunderstandings, and fosters open dialogue, leading to more productive and harmonious interactions.
6. Synergize: This habit highlights the power of collaboration and teamwork. Covey argues that combining diverse perspectives and strengths often leads to better solutions than individual efforts alone. By valuing differences and working together, individuals can achieve greater results and foster innovation through synergy.
7. Sharpen the Saw: Covey emphasizes the importance of self-renewal and continuous improvement in four dimensions: physical, mental, emotional/social, and spiritual. This habit encourages individuals to invest time in personal development, maintaining balance, and nurturing their well-being. Regularly taking time for self-care and growth enhances overall effectiveness and resilience.
8. Principle-Centered Leadership: Covey underscores the importance of leading with integrity and principles rather than relying solely on authority or power. Effective leaders embody values and principles that inspire others, fostering a culture of trust and respect. By focusing on character and ethical behavior, leaders can create a positive impact on their teams and organizations.
9. Interdependence: Covey discusses the shift from independence to interdependence, emphasizing that while self-reliance is important, true effectiveness comes from recognizing and leveraging the strengths of others. Building interdependent relationships allows for collaboration, shared success, and collective growth.
10. Continuous Learning and Improvement: The book encourages a mindset of lifelong learning and adaptation. Covey stresses the importance of evaluating one’s actions, reflecting on experiences, and being open to change. By embracing a growth mindset, individuals can continuously refine their habits and approaches to become more effective over time.
"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey provides a comprehensive framework for personal and professional effectiveness through principle-centered living. By focusing on proactivity, prioritization, empathetic communication, collaboration, and continuous improvement, Covey offers timeless insights that empower individuals to achieve their goals and contribute positively to their relationships and communities. The book serves as a guide for those seeking to cultivate effectiveness and meaningful success in all areas of life.

15/10/2024

PARABLE OF A KING AND HIS FOUR WIVES
(A Story Worth Reading)
Once upon a time, there was a King who had four wives.
He loved the fourth wife the most, spoiling her with his deepest affection and providing her with only the finest things life could offer.
He also loved the third wife and proudly displayed her to the neighboring kingdoms.
He relied a lot on his second wife. She was his trusted advisor and companion. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him get through the difficult times.
However, not much can be said about his first wife. Despite her significant contributions to maintaining his kingdom and her tireless efforts to win his love and admiration, the King barely noticed her existence.
One day, the King fell gravely ill. Despite his efforts to find a cure, he realized that his time was running out.
He reflected on his majestic life and decided to spend everything to prolong it, leading him to consult a mystical sorcerer. The sorcerer said, “I’m sorry, Your Highness, but nothing can be done. Your death is imminent. However, I will grant you the chance to take one wife with you into the afterlife.”
Thus, he asked his fourth wife, “I have given you nothing but the best in life. Now that I’m dying, will you accompany me into the afterlife?”
“No way!”, replied the fourth wife, and she walked away without saying a word.
The sad King then asked the third wife.
“No!” replied the third wife. “Life is too good here! I’ll stay! When you die, I’m going to remarry!”
He then asked his second wife.
“I’m sorry, but I can’t go with you,” replied the second wife. “I can only see you to the edge of your grave.”
The King’s heart sank, and he felt a deep sense of despair. He was utterly devastated.
Then he heard a weary, sad voice, speaking softly: “I’ll go with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.”
The King looked up and saw his first wife as if for the first time. She appeared aged beyond her years, barely recognizable due to years of neglect. With deep regret, the King said, “I should have taken much better care of you while I had the chance!”
MORAL:
We all have these four wives in our lives.
The FOURTH wife is our BODY.
We often shower our body with the most affection, spending our lives adorning it with exquisite clothing and ornaments. Yet, in the end, it will abandon us when we die.
Our THIRD wife is our POSSESSIONS.
We invest much of our time and energy in accumulating wealth, but none of it will accompany us when we die. Instead, it will be divided and passed on to others.
Our SECOND wife is our friends, family, and relatives.
We love and trust them, and in return, they offer us comfort and support when we need it. However, no matter how long they remain by our side, they can only accompany us up to the point of our burial.
And our FIRST wife is our SPIRIT.
We often neglect our spirits in the pursuit of wealth, pleasure, and power, not realizing that it is only our spirit that accompanies us after death. While it's important to take care of our bodies by staying healthy and exercising, and to enjoy time with loved ones, we must also remember to nurture our greatest treasure: our spirit.
To lead a fulfilling life, it’s essential to find balance in caring for the four aspects of our existence: our body, our earthly possessions, our relationships, and our spirit. By giving each of these areas the attention they deserve, we create a harmonious life where we are not only prepared for the end but also enriched in the present.