Paraluman is Blessed

05/08/2026

13/07/2026

Baon diaries #3

3rd week of baon prepping for my boys 🥘🍛

04/07/2026

Baon diaries #2

2nd week of preparing baon for my boys. 💙💚

27/06/2026

Baon diaries #1

Prepared with love for my boys. 💚💙

23/06/2026

My heart is grieving for Chris. I grieve for those who were shot inside the school. I grieve for the children who were stabbed at school. I grieve for their parents, friends, and families.

Fathers, please lead your families to Christ. Raise your children in the fear and instruction of the Lord. Mothers, nurture them with Christ's love. Pray for them and with them.

Be intentional in discipling them, or the world will gladly do it for you—through social media, ungodly influences, games, adults, and peers who do not fear God, and ultimately, satan.

"Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he grows older he will not abandon it." — Proverbs 22:6 (NASB)

"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." — Ephesians 6:4 (NASB)

27/05/2026

Day 148 of 365

Many times, I hear people say that taking care of the body will make your life long. Although it is beneficial, it is not a guarantee of a long life. It helps us have a better quality of life physically, but it is still God who knows our appointed time.

Still, taking care of our body is essential because our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and we are called to honor God with it. 🙏🏃‍♀️

But these are the things that prolong our life based on the Bible:

1️⃣ Honoring our parents“Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be prolonged on the land which the Lord your God gives you.”— Exodus 20:12 (NASB)

2️⃣ Fear of God“The fear of the Lord prolongs life,But the years of the wicked will be shortened.”— Proverbs 10:27 (NASB)

3️⃣ Obedience to God“My son, do not forget my teaching,But have your heart comply with my commandments;For length of days and years of lifeAnd peace they will add to you.”— Proverbs 3:1–2 (NASB)

A long life is a blessing from God. May we continue to walk in His ways, honor our parents, fear God, and obey Him—not only to live long, but to live a life that is pleasing to Him. 🤍🙌

07/05/2026

Day 127 of 365

Unforgiveness steals your precious time with your loved ones.

During my papa’s wake, I saw many people weeping and experiencing deep sorrow over his loss. As I spoke with most of them and read their posts online, I realized that people mourn for two reasons: first, for the memories they shared; and second, for the things left undone or unsaid—regrets and guilt.

Unforgiveness creates a barrier between us and our loved ones. It restrains us from showing our love and care. We hold back our affection, our kind words, and our forgiveness—waiting for the “right time” or for the other person to change first. But often, that right time never comes.

Our time is precious and limited. None of us knows when a loved one will be taken from us, same with our own lives. When that day comes, the unforgiveness we held onto no longer hurts them—it only haunts us.

Do not wait until a wake to say, " I'm sorry", “I love you” or “I forgive you.” Let go of small hurts before they grow into walls. Love now. Forgive now—while there is still time.

Ephesians 4:31–32
“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”