08/20/2026
I would NEVER miss a deadline for someone else.
But a deadline I gave myself? Apparently very negotiable.
For years, I gave the best of myself to my career, freelance clients, and pretty much anyone else who was counting on me. Then I expected my own business to grow with whatever time and energy I had left.
And I think a lot of us are really good at this, especially women.
We show up for everyone else because the thought of letting someone down feels awful. But when it comes to the things we want? We can push those to tomorrow. Or next week. Or when things “slow down.”
This isn’t your sign to work every night. I literally made Episode 1 about why I DON’T think you should do that.
It’s just your reminder that choosing to rest is very different from making yourself the easiest person to cancel on.
You don’t always have to come first.
But you can’t always come last either.
Follow along for more lessons I’ve learned building a small business while working a full-time career. 🤍