08/20/2026
Have you heard of plæsure control?
A lot of these one liners allude to the act of controlling an individuals spicy release.
So why is O control such a common kink?
1. For a lot of Dom/mes it gives them a HEIGHTENED AWARENESS of their sub. Bc it’s playing with the edge of pleasure Doms learn to read their subs down to the very minuscule of reactions. (Even the brattiest of subbys can’t sneak an O past them)
2. It’s a game of sorts, learning your subs reaction and time map. Knowing when to pull another or hold it from them. It truly engages both D/s in ULTIMATE FOCUS for each other.
3. It can be a 24/7 thing. That high of BUZZING DESIRE a sub feels after denial can be intoxicating for subs to experience, and also for Doms to watch.
Pleasure control is completely up to you and your dynamic. There is no “right” way to do it. In fact it rarely will look the same for any two couples.
Have fun, stay healthy, and always communicate💕
XO,
Lovey
♥️ feat lovey subby piece: spre@der bar with burgundy cuffs
