07/26/2026
š¤Our family update for those that are wishing to follow along.
Grateful to share some good news with you today and continue to ask for prayers in our upcoming week. As of Monday evening, my sweet mama is finally getting to rest and recover in her own home. After 6 nights in the hospital, Im not sure how to even begin to explain to you the week that we just experienced.
After surgery was completed last Tuesday, the surgeons spoke with my dad and I about what all occurred in surgery. The mass was bigger and messier than expected and it was a disappointing sight for them as well. A pint of blood was needed along with other procedures to save affected organs. This left us scared, heartbroken and questioning our capabilities.
Throughout the week, she required a blood transfusion to get her blood count back up from surgery. This went horribly wrong the first time leaving her with an incredibly low blood pressure that made them stop the transfusion-an interaction in medication before the transfusion seemed to be the culprit. She received the pint of blood successfully the next day. She battled extreme nausea, issues with drain tubes, physical therapy and much more.
*I want to take this pause to apologize to anyone who reached out that I may have missed updating as we were going through all this. We saw your messages and appreciated your love and concern deeply.
This week is our post-op meeting with the surgeons where we learn what kind of cancer this really is and our battle plan on how we begin to fight it.
If I went into details about my faithās journey this week this post would be pages longer than it already is. But I will say that the Lord did show up. In the quietest places. Though honestly at first I couldnāt find or feel Him. And if Iām really really honest ??ā¦. I was so angry and so very hurt that I wasnāt even looking for Himā¦And I say that being 41 years old as a strong believer sincerely my whole life. Those that know me well can attest to my faithās tolerance. There have been many bumps in my lifeās path long before this day including my momās very first battle with breast cancer 16 years ago. This week however took me down to my knees.
Throughout the week I softened to start looking for His movement in our lives and I began to see Him -through the nurses we met, the words from the surgeon, songs mom and I woke up with in our minds, devotionals that seemed to be spot on to our current situation, amazing and healing conversations with friends and my husband, and a sweet interaction with another patient who joined me as I sat in the windowsill outside momās room and asked me to pray with him.
Iāve been humbled beyond words to even explain it to you. I donāt know what the future brings this week. I pray for God only to be near to us and continue to provide wisdom, discernment and guidance for the care regarding my mom.
If youāre in the darkness as well, angry and mistrusting- Iāve been told He already knows it and our thoughts. Make it known to Him , yell, scream, say all the things out loud and get it out. Iāve been told He has big shoulders and a good plan.
I donāt even know how to express our gratitude for the meals, the messages, the check-ins, the care packagesā¦the patience from my sweet customers regarding flowers.
We are in tears each day over the kindness friends family and even strangers have shown us.
Thank you š¤