22/07/2026
📱I Used To Obsessively Look Through My Ex's Social Media Messages 📱
*Disclaimer: I would NOT recommend doing this!*
I'm not proud of it, and I don't believe it's a healthy thing to do. 🚫
Looking back, I can also understand WHY I became that person.
After living through betrayal, gaslighting, aggression, and constantly walking on eggshells, I became deeply insecure. My nervous system was stuck in survival mode, always searching for certainty in a relationship where I no longer felt safe. 🫣
People often ask why women don't just leave. They rarely ask what happens to someone's nervous system after living in survival mode for years.
At the time, I didn't have the capacity to process everything I was carrying. Looking back, I believe my mind was doing what it could to survive.
When the relationship ended, I felt an enormous weight lift off my shoulders. Through my own healing journey with Emotion Code, I personally felt like I released so much of what I'd been holding onto for years. ✨
Instead of asking, "What's wrong with me?" ...begin by asking, "What happened to me...and how can I heal?"
Not only am I now in an incredibly strong and healthy relationship, but I've never felt the need to check his phone or tip toe around him. We're both safe to communicate to each other how we feel and feel secure within ourselves and our relationship.
My nervous system has never felt so calm in my life! 😍
If you've found yourself in toxic patterns such as this, the Emotion Code can help!
There's no need to fear feeling judged. I will support you in the best way that I can so we can create a more positive and beautiful path for you! 💜