12/08/2022
To take responsibility or to blame?
It takes two to tango.. the aspect we can work on is our portion.
Do we live above or below the line with that behaviour.
Above the line is to take responsibility for your element, your fear, response, choices and behaviour. Be vulnerable and take ownership of your own moves and choices and voice them from a place of love with out ego.
Hanging out below the line is a place of blame, being the victim, isolating the issues to be the cause of another person or situation. Staying stuck in that reality creates a closed environment.
Clear loving resolution starts with above the line behaviour no matter how much someone has pi**ed you off.
This doesn’t mean lowering the boundaries that keep you safe, happy or loving your ideal life. Simply means seeing our part and owning it.
The above and below the line philosophy is not isolated to relationships and communication. It’s dynamic in daily personal choice.
Is the choice we make at this moment with food, internal dialogue, health, work and career moves.. you name it still uses the above and below the line philosophy as a great way for personal growth and life clarity.
What will you choose… above or below the line?