11/10/2025
Thomas Arthur Lymbery June 2, 1928 - October 25, 2025
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Tom Lymbery on October 25th, 2025, at the age of 97. Tom was born on June 2nd, 1928, in Kaslo, BC, spent most of his life in Gray Creek, BC, and lived his final years in Nelson, BC. Tom's life was
filled with a lifelong commitment to serving his community, a passion for writing, reading, and sharing history, as well as love for his family.
Tom is survived by his devoted wife Sharon (McClure), his daughter, Lorena Lymbery (Mike Gareau), his son, David Lymbery (Kristine McRory), his grandsons Adam Gareau and Chandler Lymbery, his niece Janet Bruce, and many other nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Arthur and Kathleen (Warren) Lymbery, and sisters Ann, Beatrice, and Alice (Stan Bruce).
Tom was the proud owner of the Gray Creek Store which he grew from his father’s tiny 1913 general store into a 3-storey emporium, and which, 112 years later, continues to serve the needs of locals and visitors for miles around. During his life, Tom also helped his dad with the post office and Greyhound agency, tended cows and picked fruit, served as Notary Public and insurance agent, and ran the Gray Creek Auto Camp together with his wife Sharon.
Tom authored the two-volume history ‘Tom’s Gray Creek, A Kootenay Lake Memoir, Part I’ and ‘Part II’, which paints an in-depth portrait of Gray Creek and the Kootenay Lake region from sternwheeler days to the modern era. He published monthly articles in the East Shore Mainstreet for 34 years and contributed historical articles to the journal British Columbia History, and other periodicals. A tireless promoter for the area, this public-spirited man became the go-to resource for all things East Shore. He shared his amazing memory bank with all who were interested.
Tom and Sharon spent many winters in Barra de Navidad, Mexico, where they were often joined by friends and family. Once again, he showed his commitment to community by joining the Costalegre Rotary Club.
Tom’s lifetime dedication to community and local history was recognized by many awards’ province-wide, including the BC Community Service award from the BC Achievement Foundation, Heritage BC's Distinguished Service award, and BC Genealogical Society’s Family History Book award. In 2018, Tom was one of two in the province to be appointed Fellow of the BC Chamber of Commerce for outstanding service. He was a proud lifetime member of the Kaslo Masonic Lodge and Kootenay Lake Lions Club. He was also an active member and organizer of numerous other groups, including the Gray Creek Historical, Cemetery, and Hall Societies, Kokanee Karnival of Sports, and the Kootenay Lake Chamber of Commerce, among many
others.
The family would like to thank the amazing staff in Diamond Cottage at Mountain Lakes Care Home in Nelson for their kindness, compassion, and laughter. You made us and Tom feel at home while he was in your care.
A Celebration of Life will be held in the spring at the Gray Creek Hall, where Tom attended school and later served as President of the Hall Society for a mere 64 years. In lieu of flowers, Tom would wish for people to donate to projects and organizations in their own communities.