03/13/2026
Today was a deeply sad day in our community as we gathered to honour the short life of beloved Finn McDormand. A tender spirit, Finn cared deeply about many important things, including animals and the environment. To help honour Finn’s wishes we pitched in to gift vegan and palm oil free baked goods made with care while Marsha from Whimsy & Wild Things generously volunteered her time and created a beautiful spread of food.
We’ve known Finn’s family since our kids were small and their mom Pam worked at the cafe as a baker. Pam always showed up for community events and gatherings so we got to see Finn grow up. It is heartbreaking they are no longer on the planet and to see their family, friends, and the young people who loved Finn in pain.
We don’t do catering or share food photos or recipes anymore, it feels impossible to worry about pretty food when there is so much grief and struggle, from genocide in Gaza to the hurt in our own neighbourhoods. But sometimes grief requires a little sweetness and this was one way we knew how to support. Finn also wrestled with the pain of this world and it was good to see so many gather today to celebrate them and mourn together.
On Saturday evening there will also be a public vigil in Bridgewater for community to come together. I hope to see you there on Saturday at 7 pm in the old Canadian Tire parking lot (behind No Frills). You are invited to wear something pink.
May Finn’s memory be for a blessing and may we be moved by this tragic loss to keep loving, keep living, keep caring for each other.
The young people in our communities need us — and we need them.
We cannot allow our hearts to harden.
Take good care of yourselves but also, please, please take such good care each other.
❤️🩹 Jessika & family
Memorial donations may be made to these, or other charities aligned with Finn’s values.�https://www.theorangutanproject.org/
https://www.hopeforwildlife.net �https://www.hindrajabfoundation.org/
https://www.lunenburgcountypride.com/