25/07/2026
No, I’m not embarrassed by my autistic child’s meltdowns.
A meltdown isn’t bad behaviour.
It isn’t a tantrum.
It isn’t poor parenting.
It’s a nervous system that’s overwhelmed.
What does make me sad is that, even in 2026, some adults still choose to stare, whisper, or judge instead of showing compassion.
You don’t know what that child has experienced before they reached that moment.
You don’t know how hard they’ve been trying to hold it together.
You don’t know how much courage it took for their family to leave the house in the first place.
If you’ve never experienced an autistic meltdown, consider yourself fortunate.
But if you do witness one, you have a choice.
You can stare...
Or you can smile.
You can judge...
Or you can show kindness.
You can make a parent feel like they need to leave...
Or you can help create a world where they feel accepted.
Our children deserve to exist in public just as much as anyone else.
So no, I’m not embarrassed by my son.
I’m incredibly proud of him for navigating a world that isn’t always designed with him in mind.
A little understanding goes much further than a dirty look ever will.
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