01/03/2025
🌿 Awareness in Family & Friendship 🌿
In life, we encounter many kinds of people. Some bring goodness, while others—without us realizing—bring misfortune.
Sometimes, without warning, disasters strike unexpectedly. There are always false accusations, always a scapegoat being used as bait. And in the end, whether we help or not, calamity still follows. (Natural trials vs. Man-made chaos)
This is why awareness in friendships and family relationships is crucial. A true companion should bring peace, honesty, and integrity. However, in today’s world, many wear masks of kindness, planting poison in silence, and leaving behind deep wounds.
Signs of a Toxic Person
❌ They constantly bring negative energy into our lives.
❌ They make us feel guilty for things that aren’t our fault.
❌ They only reach out when they need something.
❌ They manipulate situations to make us lose direction.
❌ They distance us from goodness, faith, and sincerity.
In Islam, both men and women can experience disturbances known as “Maka”—left-hand sorcery, whispers of Shaytaan, and harmful influences. Yet, with Allah’s will, such disturbances can be treated through prayer, Ruqyah Syariyyah, and avoiding pathways that invite harm.
For those who carry Saka (ancestral spirits, "Shepherd of the Flock"), the effects run deeper, as it becomes ingrained within them. If left unchecked, a person may drift further into falsehood, lose their sense of direction, and ultimately reject the truth.
How to Protect Yourself from Them?
Perform Istikharah & Hajat prayers, seeking to be distanced from misfortunes (whispers, flames of rage, envy, and the evil eye).
✅ Choose companions who are honest, bring benefits, and remind us of goodness.
✅ Recite Al-Fatihah, Ayat Kursi, Al-Falaq, and An-Nas for spiritual protection.
✅ Pray to Allah to be granted good friends and kept away from harmful ones.
✅ Do not hesitate to distance yourself from those who bring destruction into your life.
True friendship, as shown in the life of Rasulullah ﷺ, is not about who is always physically by our side but about those who pray for us in silence, remind us of goodness, and never allow us to stray into falsehood.
Cherish the family & friends who bring light into your life. Stay away from those who bring darkness.
🌿 Diary BardsSHHZ 🌿