27/06/2021
Yesterday was the day I was finally convinced that it is wrong n not advisable to be enemies with the enemies of your friends because at the end it will be the biggest mistake one will ever make.
Back then in 2019,at the place where I was working ,I and one other lady were the only people working in the company at that time.
Which made us to be good friends and we do chat alot and leave the office together.
She was from the east staying with her aunty in Lagos(I know the aunty because we live in the same street before I moved out of area).
So because of how close we were she do tell me how her aunty was making things difficult for her and making her regret coming to Lagos, I will always sympathize her n encourage her to just take things like that n focus on saving money so that she can go to School(university) n d rest of them.
Towards the end of that year.she made up her mind to go back to the east,I was sad but I understood n wished her well sha.
The next year around February,she came back n said she was sharing a room apartment with some other ladies,was happy for her n glad to have her back.
But mind you during all this time she was having problem with the aunty I never stopped greeting the woman, always made sure I did..which I never really understood why( because I hate people hurt others because they are helping them out so I try to always look out for them the best way I can) . .. but in this case I just flowed with my instincts in that matter by always being in good terms with the aunty
I later left the company after the lockdown was lifted for some reasons n same with the Lady and we kinda of lost contact.
Till yesterday when I was on my way to the fellowship n i saw the lady and we greeted with the usual...speeches
Then I asked her what she was doing around the area (where that her aunty lived,where she swore she will never go again cos of how she treated her)
She said she came with her kid to visit the aunty n I was like 😲😲...then I said that is nice , she said yes that they have been there since Thursday and will be going back home the next day.
I just shaked my head and said is fine,wished her well n to send my warm regards to them n we said our byes n left.
With me patting myself at the back for not being foolish to have carried the lady matter on my head by always be respectful to the aunty whenever we crossed paths if not I would have be the last man standing while she goes about enjoying her self.
Anyway I got to fellowship,we prayed n I enjoyed the Abacha n swallow with my full chest 🙄🙄and went home to have a good night rest with the tots THAT THERE IS NO FORMULA FOR UNDERSTANDING HUMAN BEINGS AT ALL 🙏
