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29/12/2022

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29/12/2022

Provoke Not Your Children to Wrath
Ephesians 6vs4
One way we provoke our children to wrath is by making UNREALISTIC THREATS or FAILING TO FOLLOW THROUGH WITH OUR WORD.

Suppose you are in the habit of saying to your children things like, "If you do that again, I'll break your neck!" Do this often enough and over time one of two things will happen: either your child will believe you and develop an UNHEALTHY FEAR of you, or your child WILL NOT BELIEVE YOU and soon he or she will come to disregard all your threats as meaningless.

Either way you are headed for trouble with your child.

If you tell your child you are going to s***k him or her when you get home, do it. Follow through. The long-term benefit the child will receive is reassurance that you are consistent and can be trusted.

A similar problem occurs when you make a promise to your child and then fail to follow through.

from Kingdom Parenting by Myles Munroe and David Burrows.
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28/12/2022

Provoke not your children.

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with loving kindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Ephesians 6:4 AMP

Let's look at the following ways through which we can exasperate our children :

⚓Demonstrating double standards in front of them. This is the old Do as i say, not as i do trap. We tell our kids one thing and then do another. We tell our children to be honest and then we cheat. We teach them not to lie, and then when someone we don't want to talk to is on the phone, we say to our child "Tell him I'm not at home".

Children become confused and exasperated with parents who have double standards. They don't know how to act or what to do.
Double standards destroy a child's sense of safety and security because there's no consistency of behavior.

Our children need the reassurance of knowing that what we say or do on one occasion is the same thing we will say or do when a similar occasion arises. They need to know we can be trusted.

We'll continue tomorrow....
I'll be dropping them piece by piece for many of us who cannot read bulky books..

Thank you for taking out time to read this.
from Kingdom Parenting by Myles Munroe and David Burrows

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