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16/12/2022

So ive dated my girlfriend for a couple of years. Things werent soo good financially for me then but she did her best to be by me and help me in the little ways she could.
Ive got an opportunity to travel overseas for which i will be leaving early next year. Aside the love i have for her, to pay her back and let her know how grateful i am for everything she has done for me, i planned on us getting married before i leave so when i find my feet, i will come for her to join me there as my spouse.
She was very glad and happy about it so we started making plans.

Some few weeks later, i chanced upon her phone and through texts and voicenotes, i realised my girlfriend has been cheating on me for sometime now. I confronted her and due to the voicenotes, she couldnt deny it. She has cried herself out, begged and pleaded for months.
I was very angry at first, cried myself out too most nights but im okay now. I called for us to break up when it happened at first but she doesnt seem to let me go. Shows up at my apartment and all. Ive done everything to get rid of her but she isnt going away easily.
I console myself with the fact that, i will leave the country soon and when i leave that will be it.
Ive tried to forgive her because genuinely she is a good person and i loved her, but as i speak, i feel nothing for her anymore. Nothing related to her moves me now.

I always ask myself, should i have married her n left the country, what will she be doing behind my back.
Deep down within, i love her and wanted the best for us but the trust, love, care n affection i had is all dead now.
I used to be very jovial, funny and lively, but now im mostly all in my thoughts, quiet, and mostly reserved.
She tries to stay in touch and check on me sometimes with the hope i will one day have a change of heart, forgive her abd give her another chance, atleast before i leave. But some broken items can be stitched back together, others, there is no way back n all you can do is just count your losses and trash it.

Dont even know why im posting this, but i guess i just felt like sharing.

Don't worry you will also experience this Joy in Jesus name 🙏
11/05/2022

Don't worry you will also experience this Joy in Jesus name 🙏

So Touching 💔😥"Mommy was everything to me, unfortunately mental disorder has taken her to another level but I have never...
24/04/2022

So Touching 💔😥

"Mommy was everything to me, unfortunately mental disorder has taken her to another level but I have never forgotten the sacrifices she made just to make sure i don't lack anything and that its because of her and the blessings of Almighty God that brought me on this Earth.

It hurts when some people usually refer to me as "that daughter of a mad woman." I will never deny her, she's my mom and nothing will ever change that.
Sometimes i really envy my friends whose moms are all ok and wish everything was ok😭" - Lady writes...😥

15/03/2022

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR MOTHER & HOW DO YOU TREAT HER?

YOU NEED TO READ THIS.

My mom only had one eye. I hated her… She was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students and teachers to support the family.
.. There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.
I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of ...my classmates said, ‘EEEE, your mom only has one eye!’

I wanted to bury myself.
I also wanted my mom to just disappear.
I confronted her that day and said, ‘ If you’re only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don’t you just die?’

My mom did not respond… I didn’t even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger.
I was oblivious to her feelings.

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.
So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study.

Then, I got married.
I bought a house of my own.
I had kids of my own.
I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts.
Then one day, my Mother came to visit me.
She hadn’t seen me in years and she didn’t even meet her grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited.
I screamed at her, ‘How dare you come to my house and scare my children!’ GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!’

And to this, my mother quietly answered, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,’ and she disappeared out of sight.

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.
So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.
After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

My neighbors said that she died.
I did not shed a single tear.
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

‘My dearest son,

I think of you all the time. I’m sorry that I came to your house and scared your children.

I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.

But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.

I’m sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.

You see.. When you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. AS A MOTHER, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with one eye. So I gave you mine.

I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,

Your mother. ♥

Though he wept bitterly but it was too late to undo the evil he had done to his loving mother.

Trust me, Mothers are treasures.

I LOVE U MUM!

NB: My message is short and simple.

"HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER, THAT YOUR DAYS BE LONG"

Think about this!

12/09/2021

*CLOSE YOUR MOUTH*
*1* You are getting married and still on planning stage. *Close your mouth*
*2* Do you want to travel out of the country? *Close your mouth*
*3* You are going for interview, competition or exam. *Close your mouth*
*4* Someone came to ask your hand in marriage. *Close your mouth*
*5* You are planning for your children's future. *Close your mouth*
*6* Your friends wants to know your secret as a couple. *Close your mouth*
*7* Your friends wants to know what happens in your home. *Close your mouth*
*8* Did you receive news of promotion at work? *Close your mouth*
*9* You have a dream about a future project. *Close your mouth*
*10* Your neighbors heard you quarrel with your husband or wife and they came
calling to help settle the dispute. *Close your mouth*
*11* Your child have exceptional gift or came top in his or her class. *Close your
mouth*
*12* Your husband abroad plans taking you all abroad soon. *Close your mouth*
*13* No matter how small or big your salary may be, *close your mouth*
*14* Your husband is building a house, so as to make you and the children
comfortable. *Close your mouth*
*15* Your wife has just been moved into theatre for save delivery. *Close your
mouth*
*16* You are fortunate to receive N100,000 monthly from your husband, for house-
keep, as a wife. *Close your mouth*
*17* Your female unmarried boss is showing you signs of going into a relationship with
you (single); rather than spreading it around in your office, pray about it and *close
your mouth*
*18* Your husband is very active, when it has to do with the other side. *Close your
mouth*, as it is not meant to be discussed out of your home and marriage.
*19* A leaking mouth decided to share his or her personal life with you, or a
colleague shared office secret with you; please help their condition by *closing your
mouth*
*20* Your boss financially appreciate your effort at work more, when compared to
how he does to others; *please keep your mouth, for GOD sake*
*21* She is a witch and the reason things are not going well with you. *Close your
mouth and pray to GOD only, for her to change*, as your relatives that you want to
report to were not there when you met her and started that lovely relationship.
*22* As a mentor to some people, they come around to share their challenges in life
with you. *Close your mouth*, and don't be a means of spreading people's challenges
*23* A young and a new wife, all of a sudden is facing marital challenges and keeps
running to you, as one that has 30 years experience in marriage for advice. Please
help build that marriage and home, by *closing your mouth* about all she tells you.
*24* You are this type that *always have a testimony* to share in the church every
Sunday. Hmmm, my brother and sister, things are not like before ooo. *Close your
mouth*, give GOD all the glory and seldomly share testimony for edification of the
body of Christ. Not all in the church came to worship GOD.
*25* lf you are not asked to speak over a certain issue and you know that it doesn't
affect anyone negatively; my brother and sister, even if you witnessed it happen,
*close your mouth* and walk away.
*Do you know:*
*1* there are destiny destroyers near and far from you?
*2* that some are not just destiny destroyers, but killers?
*3* that there are jealous-minded people around you?
*4* that there are pit-diggers around you. Looking for victims like you to halt
fulfilment of their destiny.
*Reasons Why Should Close Your Mouth:*
*1* It won't harm you in the first place, if you close your mouth and keep your plans
to yourself.
*2* Sometimes, when you plan and it fails, its because, your enemy is already armed
with your plan.
*3* Not all people who smile and have white exterior mind, do have same inside their
hearts. *Close your mouth*
*4* There is no need sharing a testimony before it comes to reality. In fact, in someu
cases, *keep your testimony to yourself and live longer*
My brother and sister, *KEEP YOUR MOUTH CLOSED AT ALL TIMES*

01/09/2021

Copied! For Real Parents to take note.
Go to hotels around the campus and see the pictures of our daughters ebe e ji ha atụ
container. Importer and exporter. But you send them enough cash. You provided them
with enough money. You pay their fees. You pay their accomodation fee. You are
giving them enough cash. You are toiling hard to pay their bills
But...
That is not enough.
They want to drive jeep while studying.
Their pictures are in various hotels around the campus inside olosho directory. Some
receptionists will even ask men lodging in hotels if they want some sharp sand for
mgbachapụ. That's how you will see the pictures of our daughters who we presumed
were studying in school.
A certain Professor I don't want to mention his name went to Abuja for a conference.
They arranged for her a very beautiful sharp sand. It happened that the girl was his
daughter who was supposed to be in Enugwu studying. She's already in Abuja with a
high profile hotel. Father paused, daughter paused; both of them paused.
You see them on flight. Always on mission. They leave different universities in Nigeria
and fly to Abuja, stay in their temporary accommodation somewhere in Wuse 2, where
they pay daily after going to hustle.
Hustle?
Why hustling? What kind of hustling?
These are our children whom we have given everything— money wise.
Tell me how they are going to be satisfied economically and otherwise tomorrow
assuming they are married?
You see the problem.
No matter how woke we can claim to be, reality is there to deal with all of us.
I travel a lot, I see a lot.
Can we also talk about some of our boys who travel from state to state to meet their
great grandmothers agemate for selima nkuli nkuli in exchange for money? Because
of the nature of my job, I see a lot in hotel. I have lodged at least in 33 States of
Federation. I have been to various hotels in these places.
I see teenagers going to meet old women in their 60s for s.x in exchange for money.
They met on social media. The boys don't look hungry but afọ eju ala. I see this a lot
in PH and I have already heard series of ugly tales around that act.
I am saying all this so that everyone should be careful and advise his or her children
wisely. Unfortunately, these children doing all this will turn to parents tomorrow. Are
they going to advise their own children about what?
In Ụmụ Obiligbo's voice: "ife m fụrụ ka mụ na-ekwu".
I pause

06/04/2021

My first heartbreak.

I got a message from an ex a few days ago. Out of the blue. He had gotten my number from a mutual friend. This guy was the first guy to break my heart. Then, it felt like he ripped my heart from my chest, squashed it in his hands, tore it to bits, threw it on the floor.

I was in my 3rd year in Uni and he was a Jambite. This guy knew how to toast even at that very young age. He brought out all the works. Dates... gifts... time... the whole 9 yards was not spared in getting me to agree to be his girl. But I was not interested even with his plenty money. He came from a rich home. Had a car. Had his own flat in town. But I was still not impressed. My friends sha stressed me to date him when they saw his devotion. So I did. And I enjoyed the relationship.

Ahmed (not his real name) loved women and women loved him. But I was his babe. For a teen, he was quite advanced in the ways of women and of the world! He was my second s*xual relationship. The first was the guy I dated in my first year for a couple of years. That one was in his final year. And then, Ahmed in my 3rd year. Then he confessed that he had lied about his age. Ahmed was 17 while I was 20. Lol. But it did not matter. I was smitten.

Then, one day, I was in my room in the hostel, Babylon, waiting for him to come and pick me for us to go back to his flat when I heard a knock on my room door. Thinking it was Ahmed, I asked him to come in. It was not Ahmed. It was one of those boys in the hostel you run on errands - go and buy me suya ... go and buy me biscuit... it was him and he had a note for me. The note was from Ahmed, telling me that he was breaking up with me. I was stunned. We had not had any issues. Not quarrelled. Everything was great.

I was in a daze so, I got up to go and show my friends the note. On my way to my friends' room, I saw Ahmed entering another girl's room. And that was when I broke down. For about a week, I couldn't function. Couldn't go for lectures. Couldn't sleep. Couldn't eat. And if you know me, you'd know I don't joke with food. The heartbreak was a pain in my heart. Exams were round the corner and I STILL couldn't go to classes not to talk of studying.

My friend Amaka reminded me of how one day, she saw me sitting on the curb at Bauchi Road, by the roadside, totally disoriented as a result of the heartbreak. I did not know where I was sef.

Eventially, I got the strenght to move on.

A few months later, Ahmed came back to beg me. I forgave him but did not want to be with him again. That ship had sailed.

Anyway, fast forward to 15 years later. I was in Nigeria and a mutual friend told me of how she had bumped into him and had his number. She gave me his number and I was curious. So, I called him and the sparks re-ignited. Bunmis*xy! Are you still s*xy? BunmSexy was his nickname for me. We were reminiscing and laughing and all. We were making plans to get back together. I was single and so was he. We made plans for him to come and visit me before I left Naija. He lived in another state, you see. We made plans for him to come and visit me in London. We made plans for us to start a long distance relationship.

Then he called me and said 'I can't be with you Bunmi. I'm engaged to be married. It would be unfair to my fiancee and it would be unfair to you too.

I thanked him for his honesty and we totally stopped communicating - till a few days ago when he got my number from another mutual friend. Bunms*xy, he called me again and I smiled wryly. This current Bunmi is not so s*xy again. More like 'Bunm with downward pointing bodyparts'. I still smiled sha as the nickname made me think of my younger self. My 20 year old self some 31 years ago. No matter how old a woman is, being reminded of her beautiful youth is still something to make her smile. I remembered my youth and I totally forgot that he had been my first heartbreak.

Can you remember your first heartbreak?

Ps... if you know who he is, please do not say his name. He is married now. Thanks.

25/03/2020

COMMON IGNORANCE AMONG CHRISTIAN SINGLES(Must Read)

If you are still single, there are many things that may attract you to a man or woman for marital relationship which has nothing to do with marriage, but you may be willfully ignorant of them. Here is the list of such things:

TALENTS

When you see a brother who plays a musical instrument very well or a young lady or man who has a good voice, and you feel attracted to the person for marital relationship, now what does singing or musical instrument has to do with marriage? It is called "single ignorance". You may not realize this until you get into marital relationship or you get married that you will know that what attracted you to the person in the first instance has nothing to do with having a successful marriage at all!

PHYSICAL ATTRACTION

This is very funny, but to many singles out there, it is not funny at all. It is rather a costly ignorance. When you are attracted to a man because he knows how to dress very well, or to a lady because she has straight legs, because the person is tall, slim, light skinned, or because the person has good set of teeth, long hair, or a good smile, you are under the influence of common singles' ignorance, because none of these things have anything to do with having a good marriage.
If you go into marital relationship or get married wrongly to a person because of physical attraction, when the agony of bad marriage overwhelms you, you will wish to use cutlass to cut off the straight legs or whatever that lured you to the person.

PHYSICAL BEAUTY

In the book of Proverbs 31: 30, the Bible says, “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.” If you are single and you are still overwhelmed with single exorbitance, this Bible verse will not make any sense to you. You will feel like, “No o, beauty is something to me o. I want to marry a beautiful woman, that is my longtime dream.” Or “I want to marry a handsome man; in fact I can't marry no other than that.” And you even quote Bible to it that God gives good things to His children. You know what? To the single, beauty is something or everything, but to the married, beauty is nothing.
If you see a beautiful lady or a handsome young man, and you are attracted to the person for marital relationship, because of the beauty, you know what? You are under the influence of single ignorance which will soon clear from your eyes when you get into it.
Physical beauty has nothing to do with a good or happy marriage. If physical beauty has anything to contribute to happy marriage, why do celebrities have more divorce rate? *Why do most men with beautiful wives still cheat on their wives or abuse them physically or verbally?* It is simply because physical beauty has nothing to do with having a good marriage, and just as the Bible says in Proverbs 31:30 that beauty is passing – meaning the impression that the beauty of the person has on you will later pass away in marriage and you will face the reality.

FINANCIAL & MATERIAL INFLUENCE

If you marry somebody because the person is rich or have a good job or business, after you get married, you then realize that God already destined you to prosper on your own without the person. Then you will wish you married the right person and prospered together. When you marry somebody because of their financial or material influence, you will not have respect for the person and you will not have rest of mind. Later you will realize that you could have made it rich without the person, that you could have married the poor right person and made it together.
When you see a couple in a brand new latest SUV, and they wear same design; When you see a couple spending their vacation or summer in an expensive place outside country, and you envy them and wish you have such marriage, What a fool! You don't know that all those things have nothing to do with happy home. Money, materials and others have nothing to do with a good and Godly home. For example, there is no amount of money your husband may have that can console you when you realize he is cheating on you.
If you are attracted to a lady because she has a good job or a man because he has money and good car, it means you have not known what marriage is all about. Do you know that more rich people commit su***de than the poor? Do you know that more wealthy couples divorce than poor couples? Do you know that money does not give joy and satisfaction in marriage? You may not believe this until you get into it; this is a common ignorance among the singles.
It is unfortunate that many singles are getting into marriage with complete ignorance of the priorities of marriage and with mistaken facts about marriage.

EDUCATION

Another common ignorance among singles in choosing a partner in marriage is education. You want to marry, and you have this idol of level of education in your heart that the lady you want to marry must be educated or the man you want to marry must not have lesser level of education than you. When you ignore the perfect Will of God for your life because he is not as educated as you want or because her academic qualification is too low, and you feel, “How will people feel that after all my education I now marry this person with low academic qualification.” Will it not sound well for people to hear that the person you want to marry graduated from so-so university, or s/he is a Dr, Lawyer, Engr. Etc.? You know what? People you are trying to impress by marrying a wrong 'educated' person will not be there with you in the marriage when the tragedy of wrong marriage starts to press on you.

TRIBE

Do you want to marry someone from a particular tribe or you want to marry the perfect Will of God for your life? Will it not be so painful that the heart-breaking wrong person you marry is of same tribe with you or so peaceful that the loving, Godly and right person you marry is from another tribe? Which one is better for you?
It is funny when I hear people say they must marry from their tribe as if they have not seen the worst husbands or wives from that tribe of theirs; as if marrying from their tribe is more important than marrying in the Lord.

PARENTAL INFLUENCE

When you allow your parents to choose for you instead of allowing God to choose for you or when you choose to marry somebody because his or her parents are good or Godly; If you go into marital relationship with somebody because it is the wish of your parents or because the parents of the person are ministers, popular, or powerful in the society, such is called ignorance of the singles. When you enter into the wrong marriage, your parents or the parents of your spouse will not be there with you.

THE ONLY RIGHT CHOICE

If you don't want to marry and mar your life, destiny, ministry and eternity, but you want to marry and make it in life, and make heaven, then the only person you can marry and never regret is the person who is the Will of God for you. God has created a person for you that fits your life, destiny and God's program for you and that is who is called the Will of God in marriage. If you miss the right school, the right career or the right job, please do not miss the right person God has created for you because if you miss him/her, you may miss everything including heaven.

HOW TO DISCOVER THE WILL OF GOD IN MARRIAGE

1, Surrender your life to Jesus. Only in Christ can you have the Will of God when you are genuinely saved.
2, Surrender your will and ways to God. Let His Will be your will and His Way be yours, no idol.
3, Seek Him for guidance. Lean not on your own understanding
4, Settle for God's Perfect Will, not His permissive Will.
5, Stay pure till marriage. No premarital inordinate affection or s*xual immorality.
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Here is the word of God – Isaiah 1:19, 20:
"If you are willing and obedient, You shall eat the good of the land;
20 But if you refuse and rebel, You shall be devoured by the sword”; For the mouth of the LORD has spoken.....marriage is honourable and bed undefiled.
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     : She wakes up by 4am, gives you s*x, You sleep back, she will move straight to the kitchen. She would join morning...
08/03/2020

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She wakes up by 4am, gives you s*x, You sleep back, she will move straight to the kitchen. She would join morning devotion by 5:30am, start preparing kids by 6:00am, serve everybody food by 7am, take the kids to school and move to her office by 7:30am, go for school runs by 2pm. She would come back to the house by 5-6pm, start washing of clothes and cooking dinner by 6pm. Serve dinner by 7:30pm, start home work for kids by 8-9pm, Shower and meet you the husband in the room by 9:30pm, discuss with you and catch fun so that you will be in the mood for s*x. And you the husband with your big head will sleep like a king, She will get up to check on the children if they are sleeping well, off the light, Start praying for you and the family by 12am -1am.. Sleep a little and wake up again by 4am to start all over again... And yet we don't respect the ladies in our lives.. Oga change your ways. Good women are to be celebrated. Sometimes I feel nature is unfair to you. But you are a miracle. It's you who bleeds blood every month with severe pains and crams. Even in those pains, you still have to put things together for a normal day. The cooking, washing, etc. It's you who carry another human inside you for 9months. The inconvenience, the discomfort, the sacrifice, and carefulness. You sacrifice what makes you happy just to keep another life healthy. When it's time to deliver, your life is on the line. It's a 50/50 chance for you. You may live and you may die. But being the life-giver you are, you will choose the life of a new stranger over yours. Even the process is not favorable to you. Either the pains of childbirth or surgery. After it all, you still carry yourself up and continue life activities with bandage and pains. But what is miraculous about this all is the smile you put on your face while facing all this. May God bless every WOMAN out there. Good women are to be celebrated. 🙏 Amen

02/02/2020

*S*X IS A BLOOD PACT...*

When a virgin has s*x for the first time with a man, the fact that the rupture of the h***n causes a flow of blood which spurts on the s*x of the man, means that an alliance has been established between them , and only death can separate them.
When a man has s*x with a virgin girl, he washes the blood of the h***n and thus binds himself to that girl by a wedding ring.
Many men and women will not fulfill their destiny because of the one to whom they gave their virginity.
It is because of this covenant that God does not want you to lose your virginity before marriage.
When you have s*x with your partner, this is your way of saying, "My enemies are now your enemies, and your enemies are now my enemies; My friends are now your friends and your friends are now my friends; I will stay by your side no matter what, I will never leave you and I will never abandon you. I will defend you to death
You had one flesh, united soul and body! Here is what the Bible tells us:
"1 Corinthians 6:16 ►
"Do you not know that whoever becomes attached to the pr******te is one body with her? For, it is said, the two will become one flesh."

This type of alliance should only be made by those who are married. Whenever you have s*x with a person, you make a blood pact with that person at the same time.
When God made a covenant with Abraham, it was through circumcision which included a shedding of blood. When God gave Moses the commandments and the covenants, the blood of animals was one of them.
Through s*xual sin, body, mind and soul are linked. Everything that is in the man or in the woman enters the life of the woman or of the man. Through s*x, you receive all the iniquities of your partner's family in your life and even their ancestral curses because the life of a man is in the blood.
You can see that there are some girls where boys who are calm in nature and who become rebellious because of the s*xual relations they had with girls or boys who are rebellious in nature.
Sexual sin can turn your good destiny into a bad destiny. And a person can steal your destiny through s*x.

You see some girls or women who, after sleeping with a man who has a curse, end up with the same curse in their lives. Things don't work for many people because of the kind of people they slept with. Many have been initiated into things that they themselves do not understand because of s*x.

Even the world of darkness recognizes that s*x is a pact of blood. If you have s*x with someone who is part of a sect, you are automatically initiated spiritually and in your dreams you will find yourself taking part in meetings with strange people. The dark forces of this sect will begin to influence your life without your knowing it. This happens to a lot of people.

So be careful who you sleep with because you don't know where your partner's bloodline and spirits come from.
Even the occult world knows the power behind s*x.

By s*x we can steal your crown, steal your throne, sn**ch your graces, tear your tunic, steal your gold and your silver, change your star, destroy your projects, suck your grace, kill you, bury you alive .. .

Many failed after 5 minutes of in*******se because of energy and spirit transfers.
Many have killed their future because of a blood exchange.

NEVER HAVE FUN WITH S*XUALITY.

You wonder why everything is bad in your life, bad luck follows you everywhere! why you have repeated nighttime diapers (Visiting a husband or wife at night), you suffer from frigidity, you are bombarded by impure thoughts of a past relationship (fantasy) despite you are with your partner or your partner,

Yet you are the cause, you sleep with anyone.

Then you accuse someone in the village and others even accuse their family members while you yourself are the author of your curse.

26/01/2020

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

Secret 1
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10
Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

*So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about marriage because you never know who you may be helping. May God bless you all and Happy Sunday.

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LEGEA PRIMARY SCHOOL OLORU
Kwara

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Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00

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