02/02/2024
You’re working hard, doing your best, and then Mr. or Ms. Big Boss comes along. .. They take a look at your work, scrunch up their face, and say something mean, all to show they’re the boss. ..🙄 It’s like they believe making us feel small will make them seem bigger. .. Spoiler alert: It doesn’t!
So, what can you do?
Nobody wants to get fired, but at the same time, you don’t want to be treated like that. .. So, speak up about your concerns. .. You can use a simple method called the ‘4 I’s’: I understand, I feel, I want, Is that okay?
You can say, “I understand that you’re not satisfied with the job I did, but the way you provide feedback makes me feel really bad and demotivated. .. I want to improve, and I’d appreciate more constructive feedback on how I can do better. .. Is that possible? Could you provide more constructive feedback?”