You got this Momma

13/05/2026

I choose to not go not because I want to but because I was scared not to see my children anymore.
I was scared to be alone.
I was scared not to see and hear their voices around me.
I was scared that they might be taken away from me when I leave.
I am scared that my departure might be used against me for my children.

15/04/2026

When my mom told me that she was shocked yesterday when my husband told me to not hurt his daughter.

I simply replied her that it's normal, he always say that to me.

But then I realized, maybe it was normal for me but not for other people because I got used of being disrespected.

24/01/2026

When You want her to be at home only...

24/01/2026

Maintaining a clutter-free home with toddlers is less about achieving "perfect" and more about creating a self-managing system 🔄. When toys and gear have a specific "home," the cleanup process becomes much faster for you and more intuitive for them.

​Let's explore how to build these systems. I'll ask guiding questions along the way so we can tailor this to your specific home layout and routine.

​To start, let's look at three key entry points for managing the mess:

​The "Zone" Setup 🛋️
This involves creating designated areas for specific types of play or activities. By containing the "mess" to specific zones, you prevent the entire house from feeling cluttered at once. We could talk about how to define these boundaries.

​Toy Rotation Systems 📦
Instead of having every toy out at once (which leads to "toy dumping"), we can discuss how to curate a smaller selection of toys while storing the rest. This keeps the kids engaged and the cleanup manageable.

​The "Reset" Rituals 🧹
This focuses on high-impact, short bursts of tidying (like a "5-minute pre-nap sweep") that keep the clutter from sn*******ng throughout the day.

​Which of these strategies feels like the most urgent one to tackle for your sanity today?

24/01/2026

When your husband tells you that he is only doing things for the sake of the baby in your womb and not because of you. Never forget that!

23/01/2026

I love being a mom and so grateful for being blessed with my children.

But after all the chaos of taking care of kids, laundry, cleaning the house, washing dishes, organizing the four corners of the house with the screams and clinginess of my kids, cooking,
What do I got as a reward? Nothing.

No remembrance of wedding anniversaries, received a cake a day before my birthday coz he thought it was the day, no appreciation on a mother's Day atleast. No allowance even on his salary day, sometimes I'm not even aware if he received.

He taught me to be rude, to be tough emotionless. To hate celebrations. To not give importance even to my birthday, to my value.

I lose myself in the marriage.
I lose the Interest to socialize.
I resent people for not backing me up.
I hate my world for not knowing my real situation is.

But maybe, it's all because I allow this all to happen.
I cannot simply let go because of my children.
If I go, he won't allow me to take them.
I don't even know how can I go.
And my heart is also with him so how can I go?
And even if I want to, how? I don't have a single penny and I just can't go out from this country without approval from him.
I am an educated person. I used to provide for myself, my family and even some people in need.
But now I don't have anything.
How can I even survive? Or escape? Or move on? Or let go of my children if I have to go alone?

How?
Oh God, how?

23/01/2026