08/28/2026
Do you ever look at your kids having one of those simple nights and suddenly remember what it felt like to be them?
A campground after dark.
Something special to eat.
Everybody still outside when you should probably be getting ready for bed.
A movie playing where movies normally donāt play.
And for just a second, you remember the magic.
I think a lot of us are reaching an age where the world we grew up in feels a little farther away than it used to.
The people change.
Families grow and spread out.
Some traditions fade.
Even the ones we keep donāt always look the way we remember them.
But lately Iāve been realizing maybe they arenāt supposed to.
Because when you really think about what made those memories matter, it usually wasnāt that everything happened exactly the same way every year.
It was somebody making the effort.
Somebody gathering everyone together.
Somebody teaching us how to make things, fix things, feed people, laugh when plans went sideways, and make an ordinary day feel worth remembering.
Those were traditions. But they were also strengths. And now, somehow, weāre the ones holding them.
Our kids may never experience childhood exactly the way we did. Maybe thatās okay. Maybe our job isnāt to recreate the past for them.
Maybe itās to recognize the good that was handed to us.. the connection, the resilience, the humor, the work, the togetherness, the ability to make a little bit of magic out of an ordinary night and find our own way to hand it forward.
Sometimes that might look completely different than it used to. But then you catch your kids sitting under the trees watching a movie with people they love and somehow the feeling is still there.
Maybe thatās the beautiful part.
Traditions change hands. š¤