08/08/2026
Sometimes it’s not even the person we’re having such a hard time letting go of.
It’s what being chosen by them would mean.
Maybe it would finally make you feel beautiful enough.
Good enough.
Lovable enough.
Worthy enough.
So you wait. You make excuses. You replay conversations. You hold onto the smallest signs of hope.
And sometimes we don’t realize we’re asking another human being to answer a question God has already answered:
Am I worthy of love?
Yes.
Your worth was never supposed to depend on whether someone called, stayed, committed, apologized, changed—or finally chose you.
Healing sometimes means asking yourself a difficult question:
Do I truly want this person… or do I want the validation I believe their love would give me?
🤍 You don’t have to be chosen by them to be valuable. You already are.
“Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you…” — Isaiah 43:4