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02/01/2021

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01/29/2021

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01/01/2021

Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You And Wants You Back

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01/01/2021

Why You Should Get Back Together with Your Ex

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12/26/2020

What happened when you started living with your partner?
I started living with one partner when I was 20. It was an absolute nightmare. He didn’t trust me nor did he respect me. That relationship ended with me turning down a proposal for marriage.
I started living with another partner after 6 months of dating. He respected me enough to marry me. I only consented to marry because I was pregnant and he had asked several times before I got pregnant if I would marry him. But I want to tell you that we had many good years together. I was a wife to him. It wasn’t perfect but we were faithful to our commitment and it was really good. After 18 years it ended in divorce. Unfortunately, many marriages do end in divorce. I would prefer that we were able to make it last a lifetime. But that was not how it was to be.
In conclusion, I must say that what happens after you move in together has everything to do with the amount of respect you have for yourself and the other person. If you are both ready to be productive and positive, it can be beautiful. But unfortunately, life has enough negativity of its own. So if you or your partner can’t seem to put negativity on the back burner and fight for the relationship, it will never work.
Let the two of you have a perfect married life and understand all the rules of married life. I advise men to take the time to carefully study the tips of married life, it is not much different from when you are in love. The page http://www.kslmen.com will guide you through all stages.
There is a very good saying that I have ever heard "See your wife as a lover, you will be happy"

12/26/2020

What was the best relationship advice you ever got?
Don’t settle. There are close to 8 billion people in this world. Don’t let that 1 in 8 billion mistreat you.
Don’t trust the one person that has proven to be untrustworthy.
When someone shows their true color, don’t try to repaint the picture.
The best prediction of future behavior is past behavior.
No amount of love will heal betrayal. Love didn’t exist if they betrayed.
There is no acceptable reason to cheat on your partner. If they cheat it has everything to do with them and not you.
Pay attention to words and actions. It’s rare when words and actions align.
Honesty, loyalty, respect and laughter make a relationship.
Listen carefully how they speak of others, especially their ex. You will be talked about in the same way. No one is perfect.
Liars rarely change.
If you continually attract abusive people, it has nothing to do with the person you attract but everything to do with you.
Look at their friends and family. You will have your answer to who this person is.
Take your time before being intimate. It takes 3 months for the mask to slip.
If they love everything you love on the first date. Run
If they call you their soulmate or twin flame quickly. Run
If they tell you they’ve never felt this way about anyone on the early stages of the relationship, but you. Run
They excessively text when the relationship is new. Run
They speak of many friends and you never meet any of them. Run
Love doesn’t hurt, love doesn’t cheat and love sure as s**t doesn’t lie.
When you think you found the one, show patience, they will show you you’re wrong.

12/25/2020

What happened when you started living with your partner?

I started living with one partner when I was 20. It was an absolute nightmare. He didn’t trust me nor did he respect me. That relationship ended with me turning down a proposal for marriage.

I started living with another partner after 6 months of dating. He respected me enough to marry me. I only consented to marry because I was pregnant and he had asked several times before I got pregnant if I would marry him. But I want to tell you that we had many good years together. I was a wife to him. It wasn’t perfect but we were faithful to our commitment and it was really good. After 18 years it ended in divorce. Unfortunately, many marriages do end in divorce. I would prefer that we were able to make it last a lifetime. But that was not how it was to be.

In conclusion, I must say that what happens after you move in together has everything to do with the amount of respect you have for yourself and the other person. If you are both ready to be productive and positive, it can be beautiful. But unfortunately, life has enough negativity of its own. So if you or your partner can’t seem to put negativity on the back burner and fight for the relationship, it will never work.

Let the two of you have a perfect married life and understand all the rules of married life. I advise men to take the time to carefully study the tips of married life, it is not much different from when you are in love. The page http://www.kslmen.com will guide you through all stages.

There is a very good saying that I have ever heard "See your wife as a lover, you will be happy"

12/25/2020

What is the best advice on choosing the right woman to marry?

[On the left-hand side, we see Michelle Obama, known for her intelligence and charisma. On the right hand, we have popular model Emily Ratajkowski. Both women have obvious qualities. But who would you choose ?]

SVENN

My friend Svenn is happily married, with one child.

When he first mentioned his future wife, he told me straight away:

“I met someone who I really like, and you will meet her soon. But I have to warn you in advance: she is really ugly.”

I was shocked.

Svenn always had had some bad luck with women, and I suspected that he kind of changed his expectations of that part of life.

And I think he was, and is, wrong: I think you have to have GREAT expectations.

Always.

He went for the mind, and simply ignored the body.

JOSH

Josh always admired the great mind of his wife.

She is fast, ambitious, and a woman-on-top. A very capable journalist for a rather big newspaper.

But over the years, he has decided that he does not really love her body anymore. It has become too well known. Trivial. “Maybe he never really loved it.”

So he took a lover who was “not as witty, but much more exciting.”

This was the eventual cause which stopped our friendship in the end.

(I hate cheaters.)

JERRY

Jerry loves his girlfriend’s body.

She is a fierce New Zealander who loves to dress in short skirts with deep cleavage, but she does not understand most of his thoughts (his words), and he has no problems with this.

“His mind can be satisfied in other ways.”

He is the dual of Svenn and Josh (although he is probably the most honest of the three: Svenn lies to himself, Josh lies to his wife, and Jerry tells her what he thinks).

All three of these men have the exact same problem: they cannot cross the bridge between the body and mind of their partners.

Either the bridge is interrupted, or it is too steep, or too far.

Or there is too much mist to cross the damn thing.

[Tay Bridge disaster, December 28, 1879.[1]]

If you are together with someone, you must respect and desire the mind and body of your partner.

You want to agree and disagree and find a solution, you want to enjoy your partner’s thoughts, you want to laugh at her or his jokes. You defend that mind in your dreams.

But you also have to long for her or his body, you want to admire it, and fantasize about its flesh and about the ecstasy it promises, you want to inhale its taste. You crave for its possibilities.

And if one or both fails, you can never cross the bridge.

And then there’s a tiny sound — a whisper in your ears, so silent that it hurts, because its meaning reaches your deepest self, if you have one …

You have made the wrong choice.

12/25/2020

Why do people cheat on their partners?

I did a survey before: Why are you cheating on your wife?

Mr. A: I didn't cheat because of lust, and I didn't cheat because I was out of control. My cheating was planned.

"I hate the way my life is now. It's like a stagnant pool of water without any ripples. We get off work, have our own meals, and when we get home, we don't greet each other. When we get home, we don't greet each other, and we don't have s*x. She watches TV, I play games, and go to bed when it's time. She faced left, I faced right. I decided to cheat and go for a change."

Mr. B: Come back home, the man is the father, the husband, but in the car, the man is just himself.

"My wife and I have been married for more than 10 years, and the passion between us has long since gone. But now our relationship has gotten to the point where we can argue about a lot of little things. For example, if I wear a dress that she finds ugly, she insists on changing it to something she likes. Forget about it, we just come home and fight."

A long and happy marriage should be carried out in daily life. These trivialities constitute the factors of unstable marriage. But these are the meaning of marriage.

Most of the time, a good husband and wife is not a very big role, but a small person. Even if you can't be perfect, you must play this little person well. For example, insist on saying good night. Even if you don't want to, you should keep your promise.

12/25/2020

I feel so unloved by my partner. We live together and I work for him. I spend all day trying to please him but I feel nothing in return. What are some ways I can work on this?
If all I’ve ever experienced is the effort of attempting to please someone who gives me nothing in return, then this effort is all I know.

If it’s not working, all I can think of is to try harder.

Not because “the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over, expecting different results” but because all we can do - and do again - is what we know.

Since this does not seem to be working, what I need to try now is something I’ve never done before. Since I’ve never done it, it will feel both unnatural and uncomfortable. I’m going to do it anyway.

Spending all day trying to please someone without any results is soul-depleting. The first thing I need to do is completely drop this fruitless effort.

I will take a good look at everything I do, everything. Then, I will ask myself. Why, Dushka? Why are you doing this? If it’s in any way to please him I will stop.

No more doing things in vain.

Then, I will ask myself what it is that I want. What it is that I need. Because I have been directing all my energy at someone else and not at me, I will have trouble identifying what these things are. That’s OK. I will be patient with myself, and in time they will emerge.

As I find them, I will re-direct all my life force at making sure I spend all my day trying to please me. I will be so grateful to me for giving me so much.

I don’t know how he will react. I don’t know what will happen to him, or to us. I don’t know if I will lose him, but can I lose something I never had? I don’t know. Can I qualify it as a loss if he gave me nothing?

What I do know is I need to gather myself. Collect myself. Care for myself. Love myself. Never neglect me or forget about me.

Because, once I love me, I will never feel unloved again.