08/16/2026
How do you get guests to leave your party?
There’s several things you need to do. One, as you have heard me say many times, manage expectations.
How do you manage expectations on the front end? With your invitation, you say, “This party is from 7:00 to 10:00 PM.” You always put an end time. Most people will honor that.
Second way, towards the end of an evening when it’s really time to wrap up, you start talking in past tense. “James, it was so nice to see you. I’m so glad you could come to my party.”
Third way that almost always works is you shut the bar down. If there’s no more liquor or wine flowing, most people will take that as a sign it’s time to leave.
And if none of that works, and I have done this, I will go back to the bedroom, I slip my heels off, and I come out in my house shoes.