06/29/2023
It’s time to flip the script on the ageist phrase, mid-life crisis.
This outdated term was coined in 1965 by Elliot James, then 48 and a relatively unknown Canadian psychoanalyst. He used it to describe people aged 40 to 60, who experience a psychological crisis brought on by a person’s growing age, inevitable mortality, and possible lack of accomplishments in life.
According to Wikipedia, James goes on to theorize that this may produce feelings of intense depression, remorse, and high levels of anxiety, or the desire to achieve youthfulness or make drastic changes to lifestyle.
Studies on midlife crises show that they are less common than popularly believed, according to a 75-year longitudinal study by Vaillant in 2012, that found midlife crises were rare experiences for people involved in the study.
As you can see, the term mid-life crisis is rooted in ageist beliefs that when we achieve the ripe old age of 40, we start to experience anxiety due to our inevitable decline.
As a 62-year old woman, I firmly believe that mid-life is not a crisis. In fact, ages 40 to 60 were a time of immense growth, reflection, and self-awareness for me.
Who’s with me? If you believe mid-life is not a crisis, grab this sticker and display it proudly on your laptop, water bottle or notebook.
Retailers, join in the pro-age movement by selling this sticker, and many other pro-age designs. Follow the wholesale link in my profile to shop inside or outside of Faire.