The ChayKray Healer

09/03/2026

Absolutely. ☮️💟🌿🌗✨

08/22/2026

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Humans are what scientists call cooperative breeders, meaning we evolved to share the work of raising children across a whole community rather than pile it onto one or two people.

That's the argument USC psychologist Darby Saxbe made on the Modern Wisdom podcast, pushing back on the idea that postpartum depression has some built-in evolutionary purpose. She thinks it's closer to a mismatch between how we're wired and how we live.

For most of human history, new mothers had constant hands-on help. In some communities, a baby is held almost nonstop and passed among as many as 10 caregivers, from fathers to grandmothers to older kids.

The modern nuclear family asks one household to do the job dozens of people used to share. Saxbe points to isolation, the devaluing of caregiving, and pressure to return to work before parents feel ready as the forces that leave new moms drained.

She also studies fatherhood, and her research points to something hopeful: when dads get more involved, mothers' mental health tends to improve. Her book Dad Brain came out in June.

08/22/2026

This right here. Real spiritual growth and evolution is as painful as it is beautiful. Although if I am being completely honest I have not grown enough spiritually not to wish misfortune on some still. But every day I'm trying to be better, do better and maybe one day I will get there. For now, I try not to think about them so I am not consumed by negative thoughts and energies that I don't need to waste my time and energy with. Trust the process. Know that actions and intentions are returned and the law of attraction is real.

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08/18/2026

You say you want healing or your life to change in some way but then refuse to put in the work or acknowledge the signs. Are you paying attention to the opportunities the Universe is giving you?

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If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? O...

08/13/2026

So beautiful! What an amazing experience this must have been!

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08/12/2026

I'll be watching! 👀

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The year's best meteor shower hits its peak and this year, conditions may be near-perfect. When and where to look at the link in comments.

08/12/2026

Ooooooo yes! Say it louder! 🗣️