03/13/2026
I was recently reminded why I am a big ol' free thinking person... Someone was remarking on how they were shocked and (I regret to say) disappointed with the choices I made as an adult. This person re-emerged from long ago (when I was an innocent child) and in their mind, I stayed that way forever. They ran into me at an adult-industry party in LA, and could not wrap their head around the fact that I was there.
This convo sparked some long standing resentments I have towards people who feel women are most valuable for innocence, virginity, and purity. This has been a common thread in my life, as I was the kind of rebel who felt acting out with s*xuality was a form of empowerment. Many people think if a woman is s*x/y/ual they are doing it to please men. I don't feel this way. You COULD be doing it to please men, or you COULD be doing it because you feel no shame identifying as a s*xy, slutty, sultry, debaucherous, misbehaving being. Nothing pi**es off (these kinds of) men more, than a woman who embodies all her s*xy sensual powers. All s*x workers or people who have had experiences in the adult industry will tell you this... "men" will find them unappealing despite their eagerness to exploit such delicious and tempting female qualities.
I have never thought of myself as a feminist, but people say I am. Every human should do whatever they want, excluding being predatory/ harmful towards others. To me being a feminist means making decisions in life without regards to the opinion of men, and without the weight of "societal" expectation. If I WANT to dress s*xy, I do, not because men like it, but because I enjoy it. I don't avoid being s*xy to avoid unwanted attention. Someone's attention is not my goal, so I refuse to cater to the reactions of strangers. I won't hide my s*xuality because of how it is perceived by people less expressive or free thinking. I don't make decisions worrying about how they will be perceived by men. Not in my career, my personal life, my art... I just live the way I want, and if other people are on the same rollercoaster then we ride together.
Things you can do with your P***Y POWER
Have S*x. Not have s*x.
Have children. Not have children.
Have s*x with men. Not have s*x with men.
Have s*x with woman. Not have s*x with woman.
Get an abortion. Not get an abortion.
Do p**n. Not do p**n.
Be a pr******te. Not be a pr******te.
Identify as a man. Identify as a woman.
Be hypers*xual. Be as*xual. Be celibate.
Shave it. Don't shave it.
Be straight. Be gay. Change your mind later on.
Just do whatever you want, don't mind what others say, live your power! OK end rant. Much love to all the empowered ladies out there, and everyone else as well!
