06/28/2026
AITA for being caught off guard about my son's two boyfriends
Me (43M) and my ex wife have a son Jacob who's 15. He came out to us as bi in middle school ( we live in a really progressive part of NY so it's not uncommon for kids to be out early here). Now he got his first boyfriend Tony who's same age last year and from what I can tell him and Tony are doing great.
For the last few weeks I've noticed one of his wrestling teammates Clark who's 16 coming around alot lately and last week I caught them kissing in the back yard. Later that day I asked him what happened with Tony and he embarrassed said he didn't want to talk about it so I let it go for right then. I asked his mom about it and she said just to leave it alone.
Well Monday while picking him up from his mom's I noticed all 3 of them snuggled up and laying on eachother on the porch swing. I shocked just turned around abd got back in my car and waited without saying anything. The other boys left hugging Jacob goodbye and Jacob got in the car looking embarrassed. I asked him what that was about and he told me they were all dating. I was just like ok like polygamy?
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