04/17/2026
Dear Ben,
Hi you. I’ve got Mary Jane and Carrigan front and center today, in part because there are so many of their beautiful pictures floating around, but really because I’ve been thinking about light—their light, our collective light as a community, and how it takes courage to shine.
So here’s a little hug, and a little nudge to shine your light, even when it’s hard or scary. Sometimes the shine is just making it out of bed. Or working so hard on the project even though you’re frustrated and tired. MJ and Carrigan set a high bar for strength and perseverance and so much beauty in the face of adversity, but there is so much of their light that continues to shine…and it guides the way for the rest of us.
Anyway, I promise to not bug you while you’re in the end of the year pressure cooker, but just know that I’m sending some of my light your way. Missing you, as if you couldn’t tell.
xoxo, Momma