09/06/2026
To give someone the gift of a season is truly a great gift.
To have the ability to look at a woman who has always been something you love and admire and to know that when suddenly she stops being all of the things you love, that it is not because she has changed but because it is a season.
A season where she needs something and is unable to give much.
A season where she needs grace and understanding and so very much prayer.
A season where she knows that you cry with her and that you are there for her if she needs you but not offended if she doesn’t.
To be able to let her cope and get through the day however she needs to, to finish that day.
To not discard her for not being what she always was.
To love her even harder now that she is not all of the good things, than you did when she was.
This is truly a gift.
People pleasers struggle with the idea that some people can’t be made happy.
I like for people to be happy with me.
I like it entirely too much.
Learning to be okay when they aren’t is zero fun sir.
It is okay to walk through seasons.
God gives us permission:
To everything there is a season.
A time for every purpose under Heaven.
A time to break down and a time to build up.
A time to weep and a time to laugh.
A time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.
A time to keep silence and a time to speak.
A time for every season♥️
Whether you are a person in this season or a person struggling to allow someone to be there, I hope these words can encourage you.
I have been in both places♥️
