07/01/2026
🛑 Here are 5 instant killers of the joy and relaxation you seek when you pick up your favorite creative hobby:
1. Comparing your work to others. It's SUPER FUN to see what other people are creating and posting, but the moment you start comparing your work to someone else's is the moment the joy evaporates 🌬️
2. Creating imaginary deadlines. If you're making a gift for a birthday or holiday, I get it (although I think the recipient would understand if it was after the date 😊). But outside of that situation, setting deadlines for your fun projects just adds stress!
3. Trying to do it "right". Every craft has best practices, but the beauty of arts and crafts is that there are unlimited ways to do them. Your process and your creations are your own, and you should go about them in whatever way makes you actually enjoy the journey. That might mean following certain "rules" because you like how they work for you, and ignoring others. 🤷♀️
4. Agonizing over the process. Can't decide which color to use? Trying to figure out whether English or Danish stitching is better? Don't let yourself get stuck in every little decision or you'll never reach a flow and get all those wonderful mental health benefits of creating. Make any choice, see how it looks/feels, and you can always adjust as you go (even if that means your final product isn't "perfect").
5. Setting rules for yourself. You don't HAVE to work on something every day. You don't HAVE to finish one project before moving on to the next. You don't HAVE to finish every project at all! Consciously or not, we tend to set lots of rules for ourselves because...I don't know why. 🙃 But this is your sign to free yourself from those arbitrary pressures.
I hope this reminder helps you reclaim your creative joy and relaxation ❤️
What did I miss?? Share in the comments!
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