06/05/2026
Today I’ve received several messages asking about the news involving an influencer couple who chose to terminate a pregnancy after receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis.
My honest response is this: my heart breaks.
It breaks for the baby whose life was never given the chance to be lived. It breaks for the family who will carry this decision for the rest of their lives. It breaks because I don’t know if they will ever fully know what they missed.
When I first heard the news, I was sitting on the couch with my brother Matthew. Matthew has Down syndrome. He was laughing, talking, living, breathing, and simply being himself. As I looked at him, I couldn’t help but think about how easily the world can reduce a diagnosis to a list of fears, limitations, or assumptions.
But Matthew is not a diagnosis.
He is a son, a brother, a friend, a coworker, a source of joy, and one of God’s greatest gifts to our family.
When my mom was pregnant with Matthew, we didn’t know he had Down syndrome. Today, parents often receive that information before birth through genetic testing. While information can be helpful, it can also become overwhelming when it isn’t accompanied by stories of hope, support, and the reality of what life can actually look like.
Is life with Down syndrome different? Yes.
Is it less valuable? Absolutely not.
Every human life bears the image of God and possesses immeasurable worth. That worth is not determined by chromosomes, abilities, intelligence, productivity, or independence. It is given by our Creator.
Today I grieve for what was lost. I grieve for a culture that too often sees disability before it sees humanity. And I grieve for families who may never hear the countless stories of love, joy, purpose, and blessing that individuals with Down syndrome bring into the world every single day.
For the Down syndrome community, please know this: your life matters. Your life has value. Your life is a gift.
And for as long as I have breath, I will continue to speak up for my brother and for every person to know they are wonderfully made, deeply loved, and worthy of life.