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08/02/2026

Good morning fam.
Hope we are doing great

02/02/2026

To the fathers who walked away because the marriage failed.
To the men who confused leaving a woman with abandoning a child…
this is for you.

You don’t stop being a father because you stopped loving the mother.
Divorce is not a resignation letter from parenthood.

Times have changed.
Children are no longer blind, dumb, or easily manipulated.

They don’t need anyone to “turn them against you.”
Your absence already did the job.

While you’re busy rewriting history and playing victim,
your children are growing with memories you can’t edit.
Absence speaks louder than any excuse you’ll ever give.

While you were hiding, and starting over,
someone else was carrying the full weight of parenting alone.
Someone else was showing up every single day.

Children don’t need to be told who failed them.
They felt it when you didn’t call.
They saw it when you didn’t show up.
They understood it when excuses became a pattern.

Stop lying to yourself with
“They’ll understand when they’re older.”
Older is when it hurts the most, because that’s when clarity comes.

And please, trash that delusion of “Don’t worry, they’ll look for me later”
😂
Bro… you might be waiting forever.

Children don’t look for titles.
They look for presence.
They don’t chase surnames.
They remember who showed up.

You can’t disappear for years and expect applause later.
Love delayed is still neglect.
Responsibility postponed is still abandonment.

One day, they won’t need explanations,
they’ll simply choose peace over people who chose themselves.

“They will look for me later ”
Looking for what exactly?
A stranger with a shared DNA?

Kids don’t go searching for people who chose distance.
They grow up and protect their peace.

You can’t vanish during the hard years
and expect access during the good ones.
You can’t abandon the process
and demand the reward.

Fatherhood doesn’t take breaks.
And absence is a decision, whether you admit it or not.

One day, your child will stop asking questions.
That silence that follows?
That’s not forgiveness.
That’s closure.

Do better while there’s still time.
Because children grow into adults with memories…
and adults don’t forget who wasn’t there. 😎

There’s a deadline to showing up.
Miss it, and “father” becomes just a word-nothing more!

01/02/2026

Accepting compliments on your AI pictures is another sign of m£ntal illnes$

𝗘𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗢𝗬𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 𝗢𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗨𝗡𝗜𝗧𝗬𝗖𝗗𝗙 𝗗𝗔𝗧𝗔 𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗬 𝗖𝗟𝗘𝗥𝗞 (𝟮𝟬 𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗦)Chingola Municipal Council invites applications from suitably q...
01/02/2026

𝗘𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗢𝗬𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 𝗢𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗨𝗡𝗜𝗧𝗬

𝗖𝗗𝗙 𝗗𝗔𝗧𝗔 𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗬 𝗖𝗟𝗘𝗥𝗞 (𝟮𝟬 𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗦)

Chingola Municipal Council invites applications from suitably qualified residents of Chingola District to fill twenty (20) Data Entry Clerk positions (10 from each constituency) under the Constituency Development Fund (CDF).

Contract Period: Three (3) Months

Application Deadline: Friday, 6th February 2026

Read the full job advertisement carefully for detailed information regarding the required qualifications, duties and application submission procedures

Note: Only shortlisted candidates will be contacted.

30/01/2026

According to reports reaching our desk.
Lusaka Province has recorded the highest HIV prevalence in the country, according to ZAMSTATS data.

30/01/2026

If a woman behaves like a baby in a relationship, she’s with a man.✅💯🎯
If she has to act like a mother, she’s with a boy.
Let that sink in.Because the truth is, when a woman finally feels safe, protected, prioritized, and loved right, she softens. She becomes playful, affectionate, goofy, nurturing, even clingy in the sweetest ways. Not because she’s immature, but because she finally feels like she doesn’t have to be in survival mode anymore.
She finally gets to rest.

She finally gets to be the woman, not the protector, the planner, the fixer, or the emotional shield.That kind of softness only exists in the presence of a man who makes her feel safe being vulnerable. A man who leads with consistency, emotional maturity, and a deep sense of responsibility... not just for himself, but for them. A man who listens.

Who shows up. Who handles things so she doesn’t have to handle everything.
But when a woman finds herself constantly teaching, correcting, repeating, explaining basic respect and effort… she’s no longer being a girlfriend... she’s being a mother. And that’s not love. That’s labor.

She’s walking on eggshells.She’s keeping tabs.
She’s reminding him to communicate, to be honest, to show up, to grow the hell up.
She’s wiping emotional messes that aren’t hers.

She’s pouring into a man who thinks love is her responsibility but his convenience.
And eventually, she becomes tired. Not just tired of the relationship... but tired of carrying a grown boy in a man’s body who thinks emotional unavailability is masculine and accountability is “nagging.”

So here’s the truth:
A woman who gets to feel like a baby in a relationship... loved, spoiled, protected, adored... is with a man who understands what it means to lead, to hold space, and to pour into his woman without conditions.But a woman who constantly has to step into the role of caretaker, peacekeeper, and emotional babysitter? She’s not being loved… she’s being used.

And the saddest part?
She’ll often stay longer than she should because she believes her love can raise him into a man. But love isn’t supposed to raise anyone. Love is supposed to meet you at your level... not your lowest, but your grown one.

📌 So to every woman who’s stuck playing “mom” in her relationship:You don’t need another child.You need a man who makes you feel safe enough to be soft.Because the right love won’t ask you to raise it… it’ll rise to meet you.

Good afternoon family.
27/01/2026

Good afternoon family.

Chile One MrZambia my best Zambian artist.Imwe likulu💪💪
24/01/2026

Chile One MrZambia my best Zambian artist.
Imwe likulu💪💪

God removed what wasn’t good for me and replaced it with love - Chile one

ZAMBIAN music sensation Obed Chileshe, known by his stage name as ‘Chile One,’ has started the year on a high note with his new song ‘Yaweh,’ a heartfelt thanksgiving to God for seeing him through life’s toughest battles.

The track, released on Thursday this week, is already making waves, racking up 299,840 views and 18,000 likes on YouTube in just two days.

But beyond numbers, the song tells a story, that of struggle, faith, love and second chances.

In Yaweh, Chile One reflects on a journey that was far from easy.

“I fought battles here and there, survived moments that almost took my life. My face was once covered with shame, but in his own way, he made me shameless. Kwabula Imwe yaweh Ine Teti imbeko,” he shared.

The lyrics echo resilience, showing how God can turn pain into purpose and loss into love.

The visuals bring that story to life. Fans get beautiful looks at his Chilanga mulilo, held just last month, featuring tender moments with his soon-to-be wife, Angela.

The scenes capture more than just celebration, they reflect the blessings Chile One has received.

“He removed what wasn’t good for me and replaced it with love. When I felt alone, he gave me a beautiful wife and partner,” he stated, making the love story genuine, raw, and relatable.

But Yaweh isn’t just a personal testimony, it’s a message for anyone who has faced hardship.

“Trust me, he’s a God of second chances. You can also start again.”

With soulful melodies and heartfelt lyrics, the song is both a reflection on past struggles and a celebration of new beginnings.

From the first note to the last, Yaweh combines emotion, faith and inspiration, it’s a song for those who have faced shame, battled adversity or felt alone, and a reminder that blessings often come when you least expect them.

With Yaweh, the artiste doesn’t just sing, he testifies, inspires and reminds everyone that God can take your broken pieces and replace them with love, hope and a future worth celebrating.

By Sharon Zulu

Kalemba January 24, 2026

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