25/09/2026
Today's obituary in the Waikato Times is my final one. It has been a privilege to celebrate some of the lives of those in the region for the last five years and often a very satisfying and fulfilling experience as well, especially on those occasions when a good rapport was established with the family of the deceased.
Unfortunately, I made an unforgivable error in a recent obituary that, taken together with earlier mistakes and the stresses involved in the process, led to my decision to resign. Those with better time management and interpersonal relationship skills than I may well find the challenges of a weekly obituary comparatively easy. For me it was taxing and there were all too obvious consequences.
That said, I found it particularly cathartic to write the obituaries of friends and acquaintances. It was an especial honour to celebrate the lives and noteworthy achievements of Frank Bailey, Norman Simms, Geoff Lealand, Dean Ballinger, Lester Davey, Doug Wright, Martin Fisher, Terry Bishop, Bill Lindberg, Don Grigg and Stan Jones.
I did not know Brian Sherborne personally. A soldier and veteran of the Malayan conflict, he was employed at the Ministry of Works and its post-Rogernomics equivalent for almost 40 years and thereafter made a meaningful contribution to the Hamilton RSA. His is a good, rich life to end on: not a person of public deeds and widespread recognition, more a pragmatic, hard-working family man, who just got on with things but had an awful lot of fun along the way.