08/25/2026
Playing & snacking 💕✨
Loving my new fidget Daddy got me from Johnny & Sam’s auction! 🥰
Days like this are exactly why we have a little “treasure box” of toys and fidgets that are new to Jobi. He LOVES figuring out little gadgets — it’s his favorite thing sto do! So I keep a stash of “emergency” toys for days when he has to be on a leash, isn’t feeling his best, or just needs a little extra stimulation. 🥹💗
If you’ve been here a while, you know Jobi is only on a leash when we’re out of the house or when we’re doing something where he needs to be kept safe — like using the oven or, today, while Greg is laying the floor in my new vanity room.
Jobi is never kept in an enclosure. He absolutely hated it, so early on we learned that when he needs to be contained for safety, our options are a leash with someone supervising him or having him stay safely in another room.
I get asked almost every day, “Is he hard to take care of?”
Sometimes I accidentally blurt out, “No, he’s just like having another baby.” 😂 But I really try to say yes, because I have to remember that most people aren’t like me not to say I’m anymore fit for it than anyone else. The experience of going from one kid with no issues, to four in a 6 month span, two of which having issues (autism & adhd) left me constantly providing that level of attention, enrichment and supervision.
Parenting has always meant creating an environment where they have room to explore, learn, be stimulated and thrive.
So for me, Jobi isn’t necessarily hard… he’s just all-consuming. 😂❤️
And honestly, I think that’s true with human babies too. When you love them, give them your time, attention and energy, and consistently meet their wants and needs, you’re giving them the best chance to grow into happy, healthy little beings.
It isn’t necessarily complicated.
But it absolutely requires effort. ❤️🐒