06/25/2026
TOMORROW! Amanda Uhle will be at A Novel Concept to talk all about her recent memoir, Destroy This House.
Our kinshop crew is raving about this one—we can't wait to see y'all there. Read on for more kinshop praise of what Dave Eggers has called "an iconic, only-in-America fable of desperate Midwestern dreamers."
From Layla:
"I have never felt more connected to a memoir that is so opposite from my life, but in some ways so similar. Amanda Uhle had such an amazing way of telling her story and I was immediately hooked. Her telling of overcoming that familiar feeling of guilt and responsibility for the people in your life, and letting go of what you can’t control in order to help yourself really stuck with me after reading. I would recommend this book to any and everyone—such a good read."
From Emily:
"Have you ever been a kid attending a religious school from grades 1-8 whose pastor also coached your basketball team, taught you catechism, and baptized you? Maybe you looked up to him and he encouraged your dreams of being a lawyer?
Then you grow up, become an atheist, start working at a gay kinshop (lawyer dreams long-deserted), and work through processing your religious trauma.
And THEN, one day, you find out that this same pastor’s daughter has written a memoir recounting her experience as the child of this man who had such an impact on your young life.
How could you resist such an enticing glimpse behind the curtains? You purchase it, devour it, and find a portrait of flawed humanity that evokes both anger and empathy.
Oh, and also some side tea: that your religious grade school employed a known and convicted s*x offender as their organist during the time period you were attending that school??
Ok cool, so this is just me then??
So, anyway, Destroy This House is for you if you have religious trauma, parental trauma, if you enjoy peeking into someone else’s life, or if you just want to read some really good prose.
From Elise:
"Destroy This House is an evocative, tender, and frequently hilarious exploration of a childhood teeming with a push-pull uncertainty that feels palpable, to the point I was literally dreaming about this book while reading it. Many of us might be able to relate to the kind of chaos that Uhle describes living within, inflicted by parents or family who sincerely believe they are acting out of love, but who are also sincerely the primary chaos purveyors. Uhle’s throwbacks to bits of ’80s and ’90s nostalgia in recalling her childhood are also delightful reminders of how the past can ground us as we continue to grow into ourselves."
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